Profanities and name calling as a seller response

Remember customer service? I do.

It seems like eBay is the place for people who have no skill at social interaction to sell their wares.

I bought a watch in November last year, calculated to arrive before Christmas, the seller took 26 days to get around to mailing it.

His response to my emails was "It's all good!", good for who? The watch was lost en route and I was eventually refunded.

Then, yesterday I dealt with an Australian seller (ZERO Feedback, just signed up in February). They used text talk in their emails, as a response to questions about the products for sale. Zero feedback, curt, rude, illiterate responses that didn't address my questions and the final email told me to "get **bleep** you **bleep**face". Lovely, imagine getting that from a Myer cosmetic consultant or the coffee shop attendant at your favourite cafe.

I just love being abused by sellers, that's why I keep coming back to eBay.

5 Years ago I posted here about a seller who threatened to kill me and my family for posing a negative when he failed to mail an item I won. He didn't feel it had sold high enough and said his post office lost it when they left it on the counter. Do you have a receipt for postage then? "No, that blew out of my car", get a copy from P.O? "No, I have your address, I am coming up next week to fix you and yours" 

eBay have these conversations, they agree it is "against policy" & "inappropriate, the seller will be suspended for this activity"

Yet, I see the sellers are still here, abusing buyers. 

It is quite clear that standards will not be raised nor upheld, our only recourse is to lower our own?

 

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Profanities and name calling as a seller response

I've been lucky as a buyer and mostly lucky as a seller, but have received some rather poorly written and borderline abusive messages. I do not engage as there is simply no point. I do treat my store as a small business so I am always polite and if the buyer descends to profanities or yelling, I say that I will no longer communicate with them in that manner and we can converse through Ebay.

As a buyer, if I have an issue with an item, I send a message to the seller in proper English and am again polite. Because I am not a moron. (most of the time) 😉
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Yes, you are right. It would never occur to many sellers that they are actually in customer service. My Son and daughter are of the younger generation, interestingly, they will often simply not buy from sellers with poor feedback. Apparently, if it at all looks like it might be a hassle, many young ones opt out. Yet, some sellers think they are doing people a favour by selling stuff and we should all delight in being called names, or told "buy it or F off, your call".
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I'm 50 and I must say I cannot remember your references. Sounds good! I think a lot went down in the 60s that changed things, some for better, some for worse.
I work in schools and find the world we have arrived at is beyond my comprehension. Drug use is prolific, catching students with utensils or small quantities is a one day suspension. I think we have created a world where tolerance is a catchall, "he stole my car!" "but he had to, he had missed the bus and stealing your car was his only option", "but, did he have to set it on fire?", "of course!, he was a repeat offender and couldn't leave fingerprints behind", "oh? so why couldn't he just leave earlier and catch the bus?"
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