Advice needed: What/how to say to someone that you're not interested......

[the_bob_delusion]

in a nice way so it doesn't hurt their feelings?

[freddie*rooster]

Wellllll he could start talking rambling on about his 15 different personalities and how each personality has a different view on religion.

[bright.ton42]

Maybe say you are attracted to someone else, you don't know if it will lead anywhere, but you like this present 

friend  too much to mess her around.?  

[spotweldersfriend]

Try the Travis Bickle method.Invite her out to a movie.

[newstart2380]

Thanks but no thanks and walk away or shut the door. Sometimes you have to be blunt.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@spotweldersfriend wrote:
Meeps got a point.Boxes of empty beer cans on the back porch,dishes piled up in the sink,bedroom littered with dirty underwear....hey wait a minute!! That sounds like the majority of married Australian men.On second thoughts forget about that strategy.

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This is assuming I'm already living with the woman or married to them. LOL Bit too late to say I'm not interested

[lionrose.7]

One used to use many many years is "I think of you as a bother/ sister " 🙂

[*elizabeths-mum*]

I think of you as a bother will definitely get the point across, lion 😄

[the_bob_delusion]

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@**meep** wrote:

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@freddie*rooster wrote:

Everytime you meet her start talking religion, or, tell her to join ebay CS, i'm sure we could get rid of her for you.

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What if its that Christian person Bob said he had met?

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Oh, that girl. I remember her. I have dated several Christians,But truly it's a reflection most girls who claim to be CHristians generally have good Christian values.

BTW, plenty of topics interest me, why do people keep bringing up religion???

[i-once-was-bump]

unfriend her on facebook that way you won't have to say anything.

Send her a text message telling her it is over.

[everything*that*i*ever*wanted]

Say to them "Could I please ask you for some advice ? I have a friend that I think may have developed feelings for me but I am really not looking for a relationship with anyone. I don't know how to keep the friendship without hurting their feelings. I really enjoy the friendship."