on 15-02-2014 03:47 PM
Lately I have been reading so much about older peoples achievements. A 89y old lady winning swimming records for her age group. A 102y old lady teaching japanese. An older couple(can't remember their ages) walking around Australia. etc. etc.
One of my elderly neighbours walks every morning one kilometre to the local Swimming Pool, and then walks back again, and twice a week she helps in one of our OP Shops.
Here I am sitting on my backside, doing nothing constructive. Do you agree with this fellows ideology; Age is in your mind. ?
I should be ashamed of myself for always finding excuses not to get out of the house and smell the roses. It is either to hot, or to wet and windy, or to cold. What other excuses can I find?
Erica
on 15-02-2014 07:54 PM
I don't know how your toe would go with it Purps, but my mum swears by water aerobics. She has trouble with her legs for years, but the water aerobics is good and causes her no dramas.
on 15-02-2014 07:57 PM
My old grandfather with a "dry" wit and leathery skin, used to complain about the Ponds 7-day beauty plan. He said that it took 14 days for his beauty.
DEB
on 15-02-2014 07:57 PM
@boris1gary wrote:
@crikey*mate wrote:
@lloydslights wrote:A couple of generations ago 60 year olds were genuinely tired in body.
The manual labour by men was just that....manual. No power drill, saws, cement mixers, witch ditches, etc. pure physical energy.
The women swept and scrubbed floors, took rugs outside and belted them, did washerwoman work, mixed cakes by hand, kneaded dough, chopped the kindling for chip heaters or washing coppers and (usually) had a lot of children.
I am not sure that the food is better now.
But advances in Medicine is definitely better now.
DEB
perhaps, but threads like this still make me question what's so good about getting older.
I mean, just in these few posts, so much sadness, and yet we want to live longer?
Still getting my head around that one, to be honest.
No disrespect to anyone.
BTW, my mother used to make my father use skin care on his body like lADIES DO ON THEIR FACES (oops sorry) and sure, once he got 90, his skin became fragile and bled easliy, but they both really had good young looking skin,
Qld farming and hard manual labopur for a lot of their lives - so maybe that's the answer?
crikey, surely the best thing about getting older is - you aren't dead. Of course generally people want to live as long as they can because you only get one life (apols to anyone who believes in reincarnation). That's how i think about it anyway.
And Erica. one thing you do that a lot of my older friends don't do - (my oldest friend is 94) , you use the internet and chat with all sorts of people, keeping the mind active
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what's the point of being not dead if you're sick, or in pain, or unable to do things that you want to be able to?
Can't see any point ast all in being alive if you're greatest acheivement for the day is you managed to keep breathing. That's not a life. Not if you have previously been capable of more,
on 15-02-2014 08:02 PM
I met a friend one day who asked how I was. I replied that I was getting old and she said aren't we lucky. She was so right when you think about it. We have just lost another family member in his 30's.
This friend I met is near crippled with arthritis but still works very hard and has had a tough life at times yet still appreciates living and spending time with her large family.
on 15-02-2014 08:04 PM
thats a little sweeping cm , life is for the person living it to evaluate. the opinions of others aren't a consideration.
on 15-02-2014 08:04 PM
@crikey*mate wrote:
@boris1gary wrote:
@crikey*mate wrote:
@lloydslights wrote:A couple of generations ago 60 year olds were genuinely tired in body.
The manual labour by men was just that....manual. No power drill, saws, cement mixers, witch ditches, etc. pure physical energy.
The women swept and scrubbed floors, took rugs outside and belted them, did washerwoman work, mixed cakes by hand, kneaded dough, chopped the kindling for chip heaters or washing coppers and (usually) had a lot of children.
I am not sure that the food is better now.
But advances in Medicine is definitely better now.
DEB
perhaps, but threads like this still make me question what's so good about getting older.
I mean, just in these few posts, so much sadness, and yet we want to live longer?
Still getting my head around that one, to be honest.
No disrespect to anyone.
BTW, my mother used to make my father use skin care on his body like lADIES DO ON THEIR FACES (oops sorry) and sure, once he got 90, his skin became fragile and bled easliy, but they both really had good young looking skin,
Qld farming and hard manual labopur for a lot of their lives - so maybe that's the answer?
crikey, surely the best thing about getting older is - you aren't dead. Of course generally people want to live as long as they can because you only get one life (apols to anyone who believes in reincarnation). That's how i think about it anyway.
And Erica. one thing you do that a lot of my older friends don't do - (my oldest friend is 94) , you use the internet and chat with all sorts of people, keeping the mind active
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what's the point of being not dead if you're sick, or in pain, or unable to do things that you want to be able to?
Can't see any point ast all in being alive if you're greatest acheivement for the day is you managed to keep breathing. That's not a life. Not if you have previously been capable of more,
When i was in my early teens, i would say i didn't care if i died before I was 25, when I was 22, i would say i didn't care if i died before i was 30, when i was.............i think you can guess the rest. Also I said generally. Obviously I don't know how old you are but maybe ask yourself the same question in a few more years.
on 15-02-2014 08:07 PM
@crikey*mate wrote:I don't know how your toe would go with it Purps, but my mum swears by water aerobics. She has trouble with her legs for years, but the water aerobics is good and causes her no dramas.
I dont know how I would go, will ask the dr. about it when I see her next week.........thanks for the info.
on 15-02-2014 08:14 PM
I heard two old gentlemen greet each other.
"How are you?"
"Well. I'm on the right side of the grass" was the response.
DEB
on 15-02-2014 08:20 PM
threads like this still make me question what's so good about getting older.
Age is the price we pay for the gaining of wisdom.
And physical infirmity is not is not solely a product of old age - there are plenty of young people in wheelchairs.
At 73 my general health is still good,
I still have all my mental faculties,
I am still able to ride my bike and get around on my own two feet.
I am better off financially than at any other time in my life.
I am the matriarch of a large and expanding family who love me to bits and would rally round me in an instant if I needed assistance.
My life is my own, to live in the way I choose, without reference to anybody else's wishes or demands (except for Mr elephant, of course and we have always been a team anyway).
So what's not to like about old age?
My life has been interesting and eventful - but no way in the world would I want to go back and live it all over again.
on 15-02-2014 08:29 PM