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The only reason he said he would drive past when in Melbourne, is to cover is sorry A if the affair falls apart and he can come running back to you to make things all better for him. If the affair survives, you won't see him for dust.

I'm another who would definately be letting the husband know, I would put myself in the position of being the one being cheated on, I would want to know.
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Don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you on your way out!
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PMSL! :^O




Just passing by to wish you a good day Mioux! โ˜ผ
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Dear Ms Cat,
Hope you are feeling Ok-sending you positive,warm energy and hope you have good day today :-x

PS he can drive past your house all he likes,but you wont know cause you wont recognise the car or him..or,of course you could be too busy having a great life to notice,let alone care :-x
Unfortunately,there will be more of these petty comments from him before he moves out-tedious and tiresome,trying to gauge your reaction.
If it all gets too much,you could leave the room,leave him speaking to himself :^O
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OMG March before he moves out? Can't you boot his booty out sooner. Sounds painful to me ๐Ÿ˜ž

I really feel for you Cat and hope that somehow this week is a better one for you.
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That creep needs to go NOW.

How dare he use you to prop him up until he is ready to leave.
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Morning Cat.... Just sending you some puppy love to speed you on your way through your day :-x
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Unfortunately,there will be more of these petty comments from him before he moves out-tedious and tiresome,trying to gauge your reaction.
If it all gets too much,you could leave the room,leave him speaking to himself :^O


dtrh3 I suspect you are totally right. Yes I can just wander out of the room leaving him talking to himself. Of course he is making sure all his ducks are in a row. That's what makes me shake my head at his manipulative character.

And yes how dare he use me to prop him up till his family can set up House B ready for him to move in. I can't stand him being here but not much I can do but count the days/weeks. At the moment it's a 'controlled' nightmare. No point escalating it to an out of control hell.

I've had my own secret wins though. It's his job to look after the pool, I look after the house. The Kreepy Krawly stopped working. His solution was to disconnect it and leave it. ๐Ÿ˜

10 min of research and I discovered why it wasn't working. Seems Mr Useless was too busy chatting to his skank for the last 6 months to bother making the effort to learn about pool maintenence. All I needed him to do was open the vacuum sealed filter cos I didn't have the strength. Cleaned the filter - voila - KK now works beautifully.

Pool has been cloudy for over a week. Mr Useless's answer? Ignore it and it will all go away. 10 min research (reading the freaking manual doh!) and I discover the pool has a high Ph level, work out what it needs, find the relevant product in the garage, tell Mr Useless how much to pour in the water, tell Mr Useless to leave the pump on 24 hours.

Pool clear now.

OF COURSE I DON'T NEED HIM.
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Cat, may I ask, how old is he?



Mid to late 40's - going on 12. ๐Ÿ˜
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The way he's revealed his ghastly shallow self-serving character is going to make it rather hard for you to grieve, isn't it?
I found when my ex finally left that there was nothing left to mourn for, except possibly my own silly trusting nature.
But I wasn't grieving- couldn't grieve for a relationship that had largely existed inside my own head. The man I had thought I loved was insubstantial: the guy who left was a painfully narcissistic individual I avoid where possible.

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply.
Willing is not enough; we must do."

Goethe


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Morning Catty *yawns* late night commentating the tennis for CS and my early morning 5am 6km walkies has me thinking about a granny nap. ๐Ÿ˜„


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Psssst..... to everyone else, don't be afraid to email me

:-x
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