Cat_mioux's new home

[cat_mioux]

:^O

[cat_mioux]

Love the calender! I look forward to seeing it every day!

My Buddhist teacher is coming over Sunday and my best friend is coming Monday for lunch and my daughter for dinner. I got a text from my son at 12:30am which was just what I needed! He just texted "I love you Mum" but the timing was perfect. I am truly being looked after.

I've been looking at flowers and yes I will buy some on Sunday! Good idea!
Witches thank you for the offer! Can I get back to you?

I'm doing okay. A bit shakey. A bit in shock. At work I kept thinking "OMG! He is really leaving in a couple of days! After 10 years I won't ever see him again".

Of course he is still sitting like a blob. He hasn't done anything around the house as he promised. He's acting indifferent and trying to look like he doesn't give a shirt. We don't speak and avoid each other. It's so sad it has come to this. I have no idea what his plans are after he leaves. It's way too dangerous to start talking now.

I can do this I can do this I can do this

[cat_mioux]

Awww how lovely Catty, you have so many friends who truly care for you ♥

Yes I do :-x

and it makes all the difference ♥

[slaterama]

Yay! I'm so pleased it arrived before Saturday! ♥

And I'm sorry I haven't been in as much, I've got so much to do and I am popping in for 10 minutes here and there and this is the only thread I'm constantly keeping up to date with (although I'm also keeping an eye on the Cha Cha thread and Mowi's spout thread!).

Sending you loads of cyber hugs and a mountain of strength Miss Mioux. You CAN do this! We are all right here behind you holding you up, even if we aren't posting regularly.

If you'd like me to pass a message onto BB, I would be happy to. I've often thought of connecting you two up, but didn't want to tread on anyone's toes privacy wise. Plus I didn't remember how friendly you were with each other. 🙂

Again, if anyone else would like to send something along to Miss Mioux, I'm only too happy to forward your parcel on to her. Just send me a PM through here. :-x

[cat_mioux]

Jill! :-x

We know you are incredibly busy and that's why I really appreciate the time you have taken to organise the 'nurturing of the kitty cat'. :^O

Hopefully 'Casper' will read this, and I'll try again to email.

Take care Jill darling!

[Anonymous]

miss cat ..yes you can :-x




your parcel sounds lovely ..

i love this thread ..xx


jill uhm:-x

[slaterama]

No trouble at all, gorgeous! :-x

You take care of yourself too! You're doing so well!! :-x:-x

[slaterama]

Thank you Annie, and to the others who have messaged me too! :-x

I really must get back to "work" now. I'll pop back in later.

(BTW, you ladies are doing a wonderful job in here too - so lovely and supportive! I'm so proud of all of us! :-x)

[cat_mioux]

LOL flannie yes I can do this.

My chest hurts, I'm on the verge of tears, I'm shaking again .. all symptoms that are understandable but I'm up, dressed and going to work so that's a good sign I am doing well under the circumstances 😄

[Anonymous]

cat that is stress and anxiety ..
I am crossing everything for you that those feeling will lift as soon as he's gone ..
him being there all this time has made it even harder on you imo..
if he had gone right from the start you would be well on your way by now
iykwim..
hope the next couple of days goes quick for you !

jill:-x

[cat_mioux]

you are so right flannie. If he had left when I confronted him about his affair I would be so much more ahead emotionally. But I've had to put up with him talking to his skank in front of me, having to see him every day since he went on 'stress leave' pftttt.

Just as I had to do when he first announced he was leaving me .. and then when I discovered his affair .. I'm taking each hour as it comes, one foot in front of the other.

I think I'll go and cuddle Harriet :-x