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no no it's ok


just that someone is suggesting that he is trying to burn the house down




Sigh.



Whatever.



โ€œIโ€™ve got my purse and my gift and my gloves and my selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor and my monoamine oxidase inhibitor and I have my anti-anxiety disco biscuits and I am ready to go. I am really ready!โ€ Sheila
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B-)  Hello people   *waves*  ~~~~~



Gosh a lot has been happening.



Sorry I have been MIA.  I did lurk a little while ago but didn't have time to post.



I feel for you Kylie trying to do the right thing by your family and still having to put up with the gobshite from MrKylie.


Vent as often as you need to.  โ™ฅ



Jacks, omg I want to X-( Mr B.  What an ass.  He is just going to keep asking for more.  Let him have the money and be done with him.


I don't really know what to tell/advise you to do with your brother but the letter suggestion was a good one.


Remind him that you are all that's left now and that you need to work together.


(Perhaps he is tired too) ๐Ÿ˜



Jacks, I hope you had a lovely time at the fair today with Master 7.  How is MasterJamesCrazy and MissCrazy15?  Are things sorting themselves out now so that everyone is happy or happier?



Hi there ICDI :-x  I have missed you and it is lovely to see you back.


I have had trouble voting for you.


147 pages of pencil drawings.  No wonder you were so busy.



Whenever I see that wedding show on Channel 10 with Kate Ritchie I think of you.



Hello Mindtoo, I hope you have good results and proper answers from your tests.  Nice to see you again too.



G'day She Ele, probably not the correct greeting to give to a wordsmith  :^O but I am trying to make it sound different.



Someone posted way back about me going on another trip.  I was at a wedding in the Hunter Valley last weekend.  We left on Friday and came back on Sunday.


OMG it was so beautiful.   You know when a couple are soooo suited to each other.  They had everything organised to mae it easy for the guests.  Picked up from their hotel transported by coach to the Hunter Valley Gardens for the wedding, transported by coach to TempusTwo for the reception and transported again back to the hotels/accomodation.  It went down so well.



Anyhoooo, I had a phone call from my bestie through the week and she asked me if I would like to go to Hobart with her for 5 days. I would need to pay for my airfares but accomodation etc was already paid for.  So, I am going.  I have never been to Hobart or Tasmania before so it is very exciting.


I am getting worried though, because a few things are getting ticked off my bucket list.  Alice Springs, Hobart.  eek!  Am I being told/forewarned about something?



The down side is that Damien performed in Hobart last night and it is 2 weeks too early for me. ๐Ÿ˜ž  I get there on a Friday and my friend likes Damien too and she would have gone to the concert no worries.



Oh well, I will have to wait for 3 weeks until he is on at the State Theatre in Sydney on the 6th October.  I checked with her first to make sure I would be home in time.  Phew.



I can't wait for it.  It has been a long time (for me) between concerts.  I have been in deep withdrawal.



He is on at the Crowne Casino next Friday night for you Melbournians who want a fantastic night out.  โ™ซโ™ซโ™ซโ™ซโ™ซ



Freddie, thinking of you and your Mum and family on the anniversary of your brothers passing.  That year has gone so fast.



She Ele will be pleased  ๐Ÿ˜›  I have written another book.



Keep well everyone and higs and hugs to all.

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JUST CALL ME BRAFF
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Whenever I see that wedding show on Channel 10 with Kate Ritchie I think of you.



 


Hey.... what did I miss??

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Just passing by from work, say HI there, and offer any cyber hugs and smooches to those in need! :-x


 


 


Thigs are verrrrrry quiet in my house!! Hubs is on his bestest most helpful behaviour, and obviously this is so I cant just kick him out!


I will appreciate this while it lasts (cos it's not usually that long), but in the mean time I am getting a payout figure on the new car we bought last year, and a valuation on both our cars to see what is the best option with them....?


 


I am also clearing space in my room (clutter etc) incase I do actually bring the cot in for him to use the nursery to sleep (he's still on the lounge) Also lots of other clear outs with subtle separating of our personal possessions to make it easier later on.


 


I am getting the sad puppy eyes staring at me often, and I know it usually pulls at my heart strings, I am trying really hard this time not to be manipulated!


I am friendly, but also firm in keeping him from pulling the 'lovey dovey touchy feelys" on me, he's a tryer I will give him that!


Thinks once the "make up sox" is done I have to move on and get over it........ *insert HUGE eye roll*

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Oh, and I will share this....


*nervous confession*


 


Just to be clear, Im not the jealous or snoopy type, very trusting in general....


.... however, he had been withdrawing cash all over the place from our daily (wages/spending) account and I was curious (only because we both have PLENTY of weekly cash to use), but when I queried him he got all quiet and changed subject then left the room..... *got sus then!*


 


Soooo...... I had a peek into his wallet, thinking of all the receipts of purchases that he must be making with the extra $$$ (has a liking for roulette- was was hoping he wasnt gambling) anyway.... I came across a lay-by receipt for VERY expensive earrings!


 


*sigh* Im guessing they are for our Anniversary, as he has tried to get me to go away for the weekend with no kids (I said NO), and asked Miss 15 if she thought Id get cranky if he spent $200 on roses delivered to my work?? (She said it's prob not a good idea)


 


They are from a jeweller that I cant stand think they are a HUGE rip off, over priced, and dont stock my taste in jellwery at all! If he took an inch of notice when I was ring shopping for my bday he'd know this!


And Im so annoyed that he wouldnt let me have the ring I deserately wanted (too expensive), but if he added this nearly $1000 to what I ended up choosing, I actually could've had it!!! *sigh*


 


POINT is..... I DO NOT want to celebrate this anniversary (had hoped he'd be gone by then!!!) AND I dont want suck up jewellery!! What a huge waste of money!


I hope he can get a refund!?


 


 


Further confession.... On the weekend I went into the shop to see them and while they are similar to they the style I might wear, he was ripped off big time!


 


Geez... how do I get out of this awkward situation?!?!?!

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Kylie .. so he's spending your joint money on expensive earrings?! Be up front with him and when he gives them to you tell him as you are getting ready to separate (and divide assets ect) he'll need to take them back and get a refund.




DO NOT GIVE YOUR SOURCES AWAY. Don't even hint you have been snooping. If things get messy and he starts getting nasty you will find snooping will work in your favour. You need to know what you're dealing with. You'll need to know if he's hiding money, squirelling money into a hidden bank account if it comes to that. Check his car, glove box, car seat pockets, boot, wardrobe, gym bags, back of drawers, tool box if he has one.



I know I'm sounding paranoid but I know how quickly things can turn.  :-x

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I have had an interesting couple of days. :_|



I spent the night in hospital last night. I was at work and my throat starting swelling (allergic).



I've been through this before, 4 years ago. Lips, hands, feet, eyelids, tongue and painful hives. Spent a fortune on specialists and naturopaths. All they could tell me is that my body is producing too much histamine and to just carry an epipen at all times and take anti-histamines every day. I was on a low histamine diet for 2 years which helped.



But for the last 3 weeks my lips, hands, tongue have been swelling despite taking two kinds of anti-histamines every day.



Anyway, I'm back on the low histamine diet which basically means eating only rice, rice, rice and pears and a few vege's.



And last night while I was in hospital I accidentily broke my one pair of glasses.The nurse helped me fix them with dressing tape. Yep, sitting there in a hospital bed next to the nurses station so they could monitor me, wearing glasses held together with sticky tape, eating boiled rice that my sister brought in for me. *sigh*  They brought a young guy in at midnight, clearly with "issues" who had to sleep in a recliner because there were no more available beds. He kept shouting "I can't sleep in a chair! I need a pillow. I need a pillow. If I don't get a pillow I'm going to have to steal one. I WANT A PILLOW". This went on and on and on and on ........



When I was finally discharged, I grabbed my pillow, walked over to him and threw it at him and said "there ya go mate. Here's your pillow." as I kept on walking out the ward. :^O



My friend came to my rescue today as was sitting in my dressing gown feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. She rang SSavers, made an appointment, drove me there, I got my eyes tested, I tried on a hundred frames too tired to care and she said either "yes" or "no" and within 20 mins it was done and dusted and I pick up my new specs (two pairs) on Saturday. Yay!



I have my Epipen and my rice for dinner and all is well 'cept my foot is started to swell up. That's a walk in the park , althought walking is kinda painful, compared to having your throat swell up. ๐Ÿ˜



Okay I feel better now. Thanks for listening :^O



Higs and hugs โ™ฅ



Miss Kitty is coming over soon. I'm in big trouble for not phoning her from the hospital. I told her I didn't want her to worry. She said "hmmmm we will be talking about that when I come over  X-( "




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๐Ÿ˜ฎ  Goodness me MsCat.  What an ordeal you have been/are going through.  I hope you sleep well tonight.


Yay for your friend taking you to SSavers and for MissKitty coming over tonight.


I hope your problems go away quickly, but how frightening for you.  Big Hig and Hug.



MsKylie , you can have a big Hig and Hug too.  How good that you are getting organised for what may be a traumatic time.


I can't give you any advice on the ear rings.


How silly of him to go to a place that you have mentioned that you don't like.


I think MsCat's idea is the best.



I am not a snooper either and don't want to be put in that position.



I hope MsJacks is ok and YCDI and SheEle and MindToo and Cuddly etc.



Thinking of everyone.  :-x



MIA, you are still in my thoughts.

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Higs and Hugs.



Oh Kylie, no words, just cyber hugs and support.



I voted.



Missy Kitty Meow..... hope you are ok.



*waves and hugs all round** XXX



My Lucy cat is ill again, same problem as twice already this year, either kidneys or bladder.



Not going to the vet this time, am treating it homeopathically, having results already.



Have to change the 2 girls diets, which is not going to be easy.



Need to add fresh meat and fish, won't be too much of a problem for Lucy, she loves kangaroo, but Mahogany isn't too happy, but I don't want my girls to go too soon because of processed foods which have no value in them at all, so, we are all going to have to persevere.



Take care all.





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Damn kangaroo meat stinks ๐Ÿ˜ž

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