Do you consider your husband

[crystal**flake]

Your best friend.

See I don't, I can't talk to him the same way as I would talk to a woman.

He wants to fix my problems, where a woman will let you vent and understand why you are actually venting.

[cherry*135]

😮

[purple_haize]

I can talk to my OH about anything, he always listens to what I have to say..........he is really good at sorting problems out that concern me/us.

We are best friends........:-)

[the_hawk*]

Your best friend.

See I don't, I can't talk to him the same way as I would talk to a woman.

He wants to fix my problems, where a woman will let you vent and understand why you are actually venting.

OK so whats the point of having a winge if your not locking for a solution to a problem?

[lyndal1838]

Just having that whinge can often clear your thinking hawk.  The other person may not even need to say anything at all.

[crystal**flake]

For me its just about venting and explaining how I feel about something, I dont need it fixed cause I'll fix it later.

[the_hawk*]

Ok so no matter what the winge is about a male should respond with, gee that sucks

[poison_ivys_pen]

Ok so no matter what the winge is about a male should respond with, gee that sucks

Yep lol!

Like when we go 'yes dear no dear' and nod when you guys complain about stuff etc etc etc iykwim

:^O

[crystal**flake]

Hawk yes!!!!!!

[blondie.inc]

He is the best friend that I have, but he is not my "best friend".

Does that make any sense?

He is always here through the very best and worst times but mostly all the boring stuff inbetween. My girlfriends get the highs and lows but not the day to day.

He always wants to solve things.Even if they don't need solving.The girlfriends want to understand things.Just as they are.

Crystal...you are right on the money:^O

[poison_ivys_pen]

In answer though to your question Crystal no I don't consider my husband my best friend, I have my friends for that when I want to have a vent and also for them to vent.

Men just don't understand that part of it as in just needing to talk and listen without offering a solution to fix it.