on โ05-11-2013 11:25 AM
a bit about my life.
My OH is away working. He's about 400km away from me and in the middle of nowhere (ok, walgett, same thing)
The other week he was helping a mate locate a noise in his vehicle. My OH had his hand in the engine bay checking the fanbelt when the other bloke started the motor.
The outcome was not pretty.
The Walgett hospital couldn't deal with the injury so my OH had to drive himself the 300 km's to dubbo base hospital He underwent surgery the next morning. Due to dodgy phone reception all I knew was at at 8pm my husband had possibly lost a finger and was driving through the roos to get to a surgeon.
I have been travelling between here and walgett for the past fortnight to help OH. It's bad timing as he can't afford to miss any work as their is bugger all of it around this year.
I was due to start back at work but couldn't. I have lost my job.
While I was in Walgett a pipe under the house broke and I came home to find a lot of mud and an empty rainwater tank. I do not have town water, and god only knows when it is going to rain again. That was the weekend before last.
On Saturday we went to Lightning Ridge. It is the closest supermarket since the one in Walgett burnt down a fortnight ago. On the way back we encountered a fatal single car accident. Keith was still in the car, his head mashed. I don't know what has happened to his kelpie. Yes we knew this bloke.
So there ya go, that's just the last two weeks. The last two months have not been much better.
Now, on to the photo challenge.
According to some, I am having a big SULK.
Well maybe I am, but while you lot have been squabbling over who voted for what, who didn't vote for what, giving votes, taking votes, making new i'd's to ensure such and such gets more votes and using the thread as an opportunity to score hits and continue the fued that started years ago on another board I have been dealing with RL stuff. These threads were not a 'competition' they were a diversion for me and hopefully encouraged others to 'stop and smell the roses', take a fresh look at this amazing planet. I have tried to work out the fairest way of scoring a winner of rust. I thought about discounting any of the fake id's but I can't be certain who is fake.
I thought about counting votes only up until the thursday as the shenanigans started on the friday. But Roserobins pic recieved many bona fide votes after that time. I wish you could have just let things go and not started tampering with the voting process. There are enough legitimate posters voting to give a fair outcome.
To the poster accusing me of sulking - I hold you partly responsible for the deterioration of the rust thread. You did not have to bring the missing kudos to everyones attention. That was done just to 'dob' on posters you don't like. Most of us would not have been aware anything had gone on, and as I said, the legitimate voters would have made up the difference.
Flashie, your barge photo is beautiful. As is RoseRobins rusty statue. I loved Kateys little toy, top photo and lovely memories. Cosmosgrove, stunning pics, loved that last one. So many great pics, it really is a wonderful world.
on โ05-11-2013 01:55 PM
PImpy I loved the photo thread and if the silly bickering is over I will post photos again.
I thought all the photos were beautiful.
Pimpy hugs to you and your Husband XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
on โ05-11-2013 02:08 PM
on โ05-11-2013 02:16 PM - last edited on โ05-11-2013 05:04 PM by luna-2304
So god help me I have no idea what the hecks been going on or why. I know there has been a lot of animosity here for years, again no idea why but you'd think that grown up people would act like grownups. This most certainly takes the shine off what should have been or should be a light hearted comp.
Pimpy's story should put everythin in perspective, stop the stupid bickering pleeeaaase.
Pimpy that's a **bleep** awful story you just told us, I sincerely hope life gives you a break now. Hugs to you.
Now if someone wants to start another Photo contest with another topic, please feel free, I feel the one I started is not right.
on โ05-11-2013 02:17 PM
on โ05-11-2013 02:28 PM - last edited on โ05-11-2013 05:04 PM by luna-2304
@roserobin12 wrote:
So god help me I have no idea what the hecks been going on or why. I know there has been a lot of animosity here for years, again no idea why but you'd think that grown up people would act like grownups. This most certainly takes the shine off what should have been or should be a light hearted comp.
Pimpy's story should put everythin in perspective, stop the stupid bickering pleeeaaase.
Pimpy that's a **bleep** awful story you just told us, I sincerely hope life gives you a break now. Hugs to you.
Now if someone wants to start another Photo contest with another topic, please feel free, I feel the one I started is not right.
But I've been running around taking cold pics ๐
on โ05-11-2013 02:29 PM
on โ05-11-2013 02:43 PM
It sounds like you've had a bad run there Pimpy, I hope things are on the improve for you
on โ05-11-2013 02:52 PM
Luvs ya Pimpy xOx Life is not a beach. (((HUGS)))
on โ05-11-2013 03:03 PM
Thanks everyone. Hubby and I rely on primary industry for our income. We got through the last drought, so we'll get through this one. I'm seriously thinking about trading hubby in though. Or taking out a big life insurance policy on him. A few months ago he choked on something, stopped breathing, faceplanted into the wooden floor, busted his nose, split his mouth and lips and knocked him self senseless (raises the question, did he have any sense to start with) and was incoherent for the next few hours. I think the whump onto the floor started him breathing again, thankfully, because with a mouth and nose full of blood I had no hope of doing mouth to mouth on him. It was an hour drive to the nearest hospital (that had drs on duty) and we spent most of the night in ER getting all sorts of tests and scans to work out why he lost consciousness. (He was unconscious before he hit the floor, the faceplant caused concussion and memory loss) He's really just not safe to be let out on his own LOL.
I'm sorry I have reacted to the bickering. It was the comment directed at me about sulking followed by a smiley face that I objected too. I gave the fairest decision I could. I didn't stick around last night as I had just returned from walgett with my FIL in tow. His youngest daughter is picking him up shortly. She is down my way attending the funeral of her best friend, who had life support turned off following a domestic violence incidence. Life does suck sometimes.
I'm not taking sides in the RT thing. I never have, it is beyond my comprehension. Please keep posting pics in the photo challenge. Everyone. And the more lurkers that vote the better I think (not duplicate id's though, that is naughty)
Roserobin, great photo. COLD is a great theme, (and I have a ripper of a cold photo to enter)
on โ05-11-2013 03:17 PM
So sorry to hear that you and your OH are having a really rough time atm. Your photo thread was inspirational to a lot of posters. I for one loved it. Please don't feel bad about the way things went. Just think of it as white noise.