My brother and Self Defense

[herbto3]

My mum and I dont know what to do anymore. We are in the NT. Several weeks ago my brother defended himself against the full on intoxicated estranged spouse as she wanted him to go and buy drugs. He said no and she attacked him twice. He defended himself but since then he has found himself on dvo charges brought on by the cops. 

I feel for my brother as he is a good person and dad but no one is listening to him. The cops wont take away the charges as they see it as domestic volence. They dont see it as self defense. The x sister in law wants the charges dropped but the cops wont drop them. My mum is as she puts it hitting her head against a brick wall trying to get someone to listen to her about this as my brother is an abused husband the victim. Mum says it is not the normal run of the mill case as he is a bloke not a lady. Only ladies get abused not husbands. My brother has stood by his family as his x is a druggy and cant look after the 5 kids properly. He has been their protector.

What I want to do is help my brother and his kids but I dont know how to do it..I dont know who to get mum or brother to talk to. I dont want my brother to kill himself as this is what my mum has been thinking he might do. My brother and mum need help.

Is there anyone out there who could tell me what to say to my brother to help him please? And my mum? Can someone please please help me.... 

[2106greencat]

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

Did I say that you type too quickly, GC?

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Sorry, sometime I gets carried away

NEW START

My mum and I dont know what to do anymore. We are in the NT. Several weeks ago my brother defended himself against the full on intoxicated estranged spouse as she wanted him to go and buy drugs. He said no and she attacked him twice. He defended himself but since then he has found himself on dvo charges brought on by the cops. 

I feel for my brother as he is a good person and dad but no one is listening to him. The cops wont take away the charges as they see it as domestic volence. They dont see it as self defense. The x sister in law wants the charges dropped but the cops wont drop them. My mum is as she puts it hitting her head against a brick wall trying to get someone to listen to her about this as my brother is an abused husband the victim. Mum says it is not the normal run of the mill case as he is a bloke not a lady. Only ladies get abused not husbands. My brother has stood by his family as his x is a druggy and cant look after the 5 kids properly. He has been their protector.

What I want to do is help my brother and his kids but I dont know how to do it..I dont know who to get mum or brother to talk to. I dont want my brother to kill himself as this is what my mum has been thinking he might do. My brother and mum need help.

Is there anyone out there who could tell me what to say to my brother to help him please? And my mum? Can someone please please help me...

[the_great_she_elephant]

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

I was trying to quote this. lol

Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

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Take me, for example, I'm actually a 

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@2106greencat wrote:

What's a smoke jumper?

A firefighter that drops into a hot zone from a helicopter to fight the fire from the inside rather than the peripheral - my brother is one in Colorado, it was all I could think of at the time when I was typing. LOL

Good deflection BTW

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  Now I know....lol.... I had never heard that before, your brother is very brave......if indeed you do have a brother......lol.

This whole thread was a deflection....., wasn't it Icy..... However, I don't think it has panned out how you expected.

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

I was trying to quote this. lol

Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

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Take me, for example, I'm actually a 

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We won't tell Mr Elephant.......promise......

[icyfroth]

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@siggie-reported-by-alarmists wrote:

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@2106greencat wrote:

What's a smoke jumper?

A firefighter that drops into a hot zone from a helicopter to fight the fire from the inside rather than the peripheral - my brother is one in Colorado, it was all I could think of at the time when I was typing. LOL

Good deflection BTW

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  Now I know....lol.... I had never heard that before, your brother is very brave......if indeed you do have a brother......lol.

This whole thread was a deflection....., wasn't it Icy..... However, I don't think it has panned out how you expected.

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I'm not in the least concerned as to how it panned out, sigs....................... this is not my thread after all.....................

how about showing us whatchya got?

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

I was just about to ask the same question.

Oh no! Perhaps I am really you, siggie!

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How about.......great minds think a like.......

[lurker172602]

Well I'm me and always have been.
Oh, except when ebay locked me out and I had to change from me to me #2.
And then there was that time when you couldn't post more than 10 times with out buying enough **bleep**, so I made another version of myself.

I think I may be a clone ..........

[icyfroth]

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@siggie-reported-by-alarmists wrote:

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

I was just about to ask the same question.

Oh no! Perhaps I am really you, siggie!

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How about.......great minds think a like.......

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how about.......showing us any mind at all..........

[*crikey*mate*]

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@freddie*rooster wrote:

I heard underbat rattling the spoon drawer.

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Are you Underbat?

He's been MIA for about the same amount of time as you have.....

I mean.

The very day he shows up....

So do you?

RUNS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

[2106greencat]

.if indeed you do have a brother......lol.

Got me - DAMMIT