Quadriplegic berated for parking in handicapped bay

The West Australian Updated October 22, 2013, 9:54 am
Quadriplegic berated for parking in handicapped bay

Quadriplegic berated for parking in handicapped bay

A quadriplegic has found an anonymous note on his BMW because he parked in a handicapped bay.

London's Daily Mail reports that Matt Milstead parked in had parked in the spot before going to play a game of wheelchair rugby at the YMCA in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

When the 36-year-old returned to his car, he found the nasty handwritten note in the door handle.

"I would love to see your wheelchair! I'm guessing male 25-35 years professional who thinks he's got the world by the ass. But I could be wrong," the note said.

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The angry note from a passer-by who saw the Matt Milstead's BMW parked in a handicapped parking spot. Photo: Facebook.

 

Mr Milstead, who works for the Social Security Administration, said he was shocked by the note.

"I was kind of puzzled why he would leave this note and never met me, didn't know if I was in a wheelchair or not, but he just assumed I was just someone who tried to steal a close and convenient spot," he told Wood TV 8.

His wife Leslie was furious and vented on Facebook.

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Matt Milstead (R) with his wife, Leslie, who posted the angry note on Facebook. Photo: Facebook.

 

"It's kind of ironic the guy was trying to right a wrong. He assumed some jerk had parked in a handicapped spot that shouldn't be, and so he was really trying," Mrs Milstead said. "He probably felt like a good person and thought he was doing a good thing, but the problem is he was wrong."

On Facebook she wrote: "He is a quadriplegic, which for him means that he can no longer move his legs or his fingers in either hand. He has no grip. So, if you are willing to give him your functioning hands and legs for the rest of your life in exchange for his 6-year-old BMW and handicapped parking pass, I'm sure he'd make that trade."

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need to borrow that brick wakk am*3?

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@twinkles**stars wrote:

The issue IMO was the BMW....jealously


mebbe the note writer didnt see the handicapped parking pass displayed anywhere in the car?


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@am*3 wrote:

The note writer assumed a disabled person wouldn't have a very nice car like that, nor would they be parked outside a gym.  It was outside the gym where Mattt was playing wheelchair rugby.



But my point still stands. If he saw the sign and still wrote the note, then he is not a reasonable person. If he saw the sign on a BMW and then saw the driver walking up to it then that's a different matter.

 

 

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If he saw the sign and still wrote the note, then he is not a reasonable person

 

BINGO.. that is the point of the story.. why would a man write a note like that.

 

That is what the wife said in the video clip .. if it really was an able bodied person who parked in the disabled park (with sticker) then that person wouldn't careless about the note... so what was the point of writing it?

 

As it turns out the person  was severely disabled so receiving a note like that can only be upsetting for them.

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@twinkles**stars wrote:
The West Australian Updated October 22, 2013, 9:54 am
Quadriplegic berated for parking in handicapped bay

Quadriplegic berated for parking in handicapped bay

A quadriplegic has found an anonymous note on his BMW because he parked in a handicapped bay.

London's Daily Mail reports that Matt Milstead parked in had parked in the spot before going to play a game of wheelchair rugby at the YMCA in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

When the 36-year-old returned to his car, he found the nasty handwritten note in the door handle.

"I would love to see your wheelchair! I'm guessing male 25-35 years professional who thinks he's got the world by the ass. But I could be wrong," the note said.

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The angry note from a passer-by who saw the Matt Milstead's BMW parked in a handicapped parking spot. Photo: Facebook.

 

Mr Milstead, who works for the Social Security Administration, said he was shocked by the note.

"I was kind of puzzled why he would leave this note and never met me, didn't know if I was in a wheelchair or not, but he just assumed I was just someone who tried to steal a close and convenient spot," he told Wood TV 8.

His wife Leslie was furious and vented on Facebook.

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Matt Milstead (R) with his wife, Leslie, who posted the angry note on Facebook. Photo: Facebook.

 

"It's kind of ironic the guy was trying to right a wrong. He assumed some jerk had parked in a handicapped spot that shouldn't be, and so he was really trying," Mrs Milstead said. "He probably felt like a good person and thought he was doing a good thing, but the problem is he was wrong."

On Facebook she wrote: "He is a quadriplegic, which for him means that he can no longer move his legs or his fingers in either hand. He has no grip. So, if you are willing to give him your functioning hands and legs for the rest of your life in exchange for his 6-year-old BMW and handicapped parking pass, I'm sure he'd make that trade."


I can't see anywhere she says he had a sticker up - surely she would have made a point of saying 'he had his sticker up'  - but she didn't so he should be booked anyway for not displaying .... The guy who left the note was correct ... he rightly assumed 'no sticker ... he must be illegeally parked' - BMW or not !!

 

 

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rabbbit - there is a video clip of TV coverage of this story in my post above. They stated he did have his handicapped placard on his car.

 

He works, goes out a lot.. is entitled to a handicapped sticker... why do people assume he wouldn't have it on his car?? He would know he shouldn't park in disabled spots unless his sticker/placard is on his car.

 

THIS MAN HAS BEEN DISABLED FOR 20 YEARS.. I think he knows to have is disabled sticker on his car permanently!

 

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yeah rabbit i agree, it would a fault of theirs if they didnt display the sticker


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there is a video clip of TV coverage of this story. They stated he did have his handicapped placard on his car.

 

 

oh, i was going to ask if there were any reports if they actually had the sticker displayed

 

 

i suppose it a valid story now


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@am*3 wrote:

rabbbit - there is a video clip of TV coverage of this story in my post above. They stated he did have his handicapped placard on his car.

 

He works, goes out a lot.. is entitled to a handicapped sticker... why do people assume he wouldn't have it on his car?? He would know he shouldn't park in disabled spots unless his sticker/placard is on his car.

 

THIS MAN HAS BEEN DISABLED FOR 20 YEARS.. I think he knows to have is disabled sticker on his car permanently!

 


 

WHy wouldn't the journalist state the obvious when all the reader's are wondering about this? Because there wouldn't have been a story if this was mentioned. Do you still not get my point AM3? 

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@joz*garage wrote:

there is a video clip of TV coverage of this story. They stated he did have his handicapped placard on his car.

 

 

oh, i was going to ask if there were any reports if they actually had the sticker displayed

 

 

i suppose it a valid story now


It makes it less of a news worthy story if the obvious was mentioned. 

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