What goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults is none of my business.
No, I do not have the right to force my beliefs, or lifestyle on anyone else.
Who am I to judge anyone for the choices they make in regards to their lifestyle.
But yes, I still have a right to my opinion and will speak up when I see bullying.
Hopefully this will clear up any questions as it is good to be on the same page.
Failure to communicate always seems to have a bad outcome.
Ask Cool Hand Luke. 
@steppefjordwyfe10 wrote:
@4c4sale wrote:
@steppefjordwyfe10 wrote:
@4c4sale wrote:
@steppefjordwyfe10 wrote:Yes, I may have seen it too.
Was it the one with the predatory narcisstic woman? She was always on the look out for someone to help her? Always ended up doing harm to the ones she was involved with, many times intentionally and sometimes unintentionally. It was just how things went in her life, stagnant or down hill, one. I think it was a documentary. I love those.
You may also see these types playing *support* roles in philosphical, religious, educational or moral institutions. (Sometimes marginal in nature and in their standards of accreditation, if any exist.) This puts them in a vantage spot to prey on the vulnerable while seeming to serve, but such types always put their own desires first, and betray this in ways large and small.
Boy does that sound interesting.
I can't stand that when someone "preys on the vulnerable while seeming to serve". I've seen that myself. I know that type. I've encountered it. Really upsetting to me.
And on another note, right, is that correct up there? Astounding.
One of the best ways to validate one's predation is by wrapping it up in high-sounding purpose, whether calling it brave pioneering of new social territory or "freeing" others to do as they please.
I've learned to be wary of such false prophets.
Kind of chilling. I see some things as evil and this kind of stuff reminds me of it, feels like it. I won't go places where I feel it.
Good call!
The religiosity or titular moral standing (minor though it may be, and often self-conferred) of such individuals can blind the vulnerable to the self-serving nature of the attention they may receive.
But of course one can balance common sense with an open nature, so no need to hide from such types, just identify them as one sees them.
Sunlight and all that. 
4c4 wrote:
"...Sunlight and all that."
and a little bleach wouldn't hurt and in my case I'd be carrying a flask of Holy Water, thank you very much. 
@thegoblinswillgetu wrote:What goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults is none of my business.
No, I do not have the right to force my beliefs, or lifestyle on anyone else.
Who am I to judge anyone for the choices they make in regards to their lifestyle.
But yes, I still have a right to my opinion and will speak up when I see bullying.
Hopefully this will clear up any questions as it is good to be on the same page.
Failure to communicate always seems to have a bad outcome.
Ask Cool Hand Luke.
Confusing.
Earlier you said you didn't judge others for being different.
You said no one had the right to judge others, but you now say that you judge others as - among other things - bullies.
Massive contradiction.
Does no one - including yourself - have the right to judge others?
Or do you reserve the right to judge while denying this right to others?
Please clarify this.
Thanks!
oh! lol,thank you! i've gotten teased for ..umm..innuendos i didn't mean,in the past. 🙂 thank you!
goblins,my dear friend,i would never ignore you,even if i did disagree with you. you rock!
