"This is for the Senior members of CS, those born before 1947. Baby Boomers and Generations X & Y are welcome providing you are over 18 🙂
But this is definitely for people who are facing the last long haul. We have survived babyhood, childhood, being teens and twenties... We have learned to read and write, to drive, have probably been married and the women have survived child birth.
The challenges are constant and the near misses of death are also there. If we have become a senior we have learned to survive so much, and along the way we have, of course, gathered a great deal of knowledge about life.
The belief that age diminishes us is not true, it changes us and not all of it is bad. Yes there can be various forms of dementia for some, but that is also a disease that can happen in younger people. Alzheimer's can also occur - it is another form of dementia and generally occurs in people over 65, although that can occur much earlier too and not everyone is going to get it.
Most of us keep our mental alertness up to the moment of death, even if we lose our hearing and our eyesight, but of course this can happen at any age too.
What changes is our physical strength, which diminishes but our mental strength and patience grows, it has to of course, to deal with this aging thing.
Arthritis, heart trouble, strokes - all these things associated with age can happen at any time in your life - arthritis can happen when you are a child but they don't like giving out new hips and knees until you are in your 50s and 60s or later. We can talk about that too.
Cancer can happen any time and that is also something we can discuss here if you like.
The point of this thread is to give the Seniors a chance to talk about how they are coping with age, the challenges it presents and the fears that can come with it... loss of hearing or sight, aging spouses, living alone, retirement villages, even death...
So I will ask that the Juniors treat us in kindly fashion and remember, all this is going to happen to you too - providing you avoid death before you get here 🙂
So, onward and upward. Let's go...."
Yes Jean I do make time for me :-x. When Graham lived with me before I didn't have much me time. Lesson learned 😄
When Channy and the girls in her group go to Casino for the children's (from the car accident) funeral I will have my great grandboy and one of the other girl's 7 month old. That will be an interesting couple of days or so. Their mother and the girls have been friends for years.
Tragic
Just in case you don't know, Channy (Chantelle) is actually my granddaughter biologically. I have raised her from a bub, my daughter died, so I am her mum. She and her partner have Desi my great grandson/grandson 😄
The funeral was today, R.I.P. little ones and dad.
I had a baby girl all day, what a precious gem she is
Channy was struggling with going to the funeral.
She said it was so sad seeing the big coffin (dad) in the middle and the little blue and pink ones either side.
These things tend to make one aware of how short in can be.:-(
