The Seniors Thread :-)

"This is for the Senior members of CS, those born before 1947. Baby Boomers and Generations X & Y are welcome providing you are over 18 🙂



But this is definitely for people who are facing the last long haul.  We have survived babyhood, childhood, being teens and twenties... We have learned to read and write, to drive, have probably been married and the women have survived child birth.



The challenges are constant and the near misses of death are also there.  If we have become a senior we have learned to survive so much, and along the way we have, of course, gathered a great deal of knowledge about life.



The  belief that age diminishes us is not true, it changes us and not all of it is bad.  Yes there can be various forms of dementia for some, but that is also a disease that can happen in younger people.  Alzheimer's can also occur - it is another form of dementia and generally occurs in people over 65, although that can occur much earlier too and not everyone is going to get it.



Most of us keep our mental alertness up to the moment of death, even if we lose our hearing and our eyesight, but of course this can happen at any age too.



What changes is our physical strength, which diminishes but our mental strength and patience grows, it has to of course, to deal with this aging thing.



Arthritis, heart trouble, strokes - all these things associated with age can happen at any time in your life - arthritis can happen when you are a child but they don't like giving out new hips and knees until you are in your 50s and 60s or later.  We can talk about that too.



Cancer can happen any time and that is also something we can discuss here if you like.



The point of this thread is to give the Seniors a chance to talk about how they are coping with age, the challenges it presents and the fears that can come with it... loss of hearing or sight, aging spouses, living alone, retirement villages, even death...



So I will ask that the Juniors treat us in kindly fashion and remember, all this is going to happen to you too - providing you avoid death before you get here 🙂



So, onward and upward.  Let's go...."



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Evening gerries.


Take care Darki--~~~~~waves to Zaidee and the other seniors.


Richo.

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I know what I wanted to say.  The young man who came to install the recycle heating lost a close friend early this morning.  He was pretty upset, but wanted to be here to do the installation.



What has really annoyed me (yet again) is his friend, and best man at his wedding had already beaten a cancer of the glands under and near his ear with chemo and radiotherapy and when a lump appeared on the other side of his face he went to see his doctor as he was worred (needless to say)



Well the doctor said it was 'nothing to worry about as the cancer would not jump from one side of his face to the other'



He returned a couple of months later still worred and was told the same thing.



I suppose the doctor thought 'Uh oh, he is hung up on cancer and stil fearful'



Sigh :_|  Yet another damn fool of a doctor.



It was cancer and because of the delay in treatment it killed the fellow X-(



Really I have heard of this so bluddy often I have to wonder who is going to take the AMA to task about threatening doctors with heavy fines (at the very least) for such carelessness.



What is so wrong with sending someone for a test if they are worried?



Jayzus!  X-(



Thanks for being here so I could dump my anger xxxxx




That is terrible Darki, the poor man.



I think it is always safer to get a second opinion, as some drs. really dont have a clue these days.



I have just recently changed drs. because the one I had been going to for ages, got really wishy washy in her care of me and OH......I think some drs. just get used to their patients and think they know best. This dr. gave me something that I was allergic to after I told her I was alergic to it, plus it is on my file.



They make you so mad..



now my vent is over.

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I agree about idiot doctors......my brother had bowel cancer and was treated into remission.


Two years later had a problem with the backof his neck and spine....was diagnosed as having ankelosing spondilitis.!


Turned out to be cancer of the bone..a secondary of the original one.


Needless to say...by the time they discovered that, it was tooooo late.:-(

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Oh Gilly, I am so sorry to hear about your brother..........



I think alot in the medical proffesion these days have alot to answer for.



I have heard of quite a few people that have been diagnosed with an illness, then later when it doesnt get better, it turns out to be cancer.

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I think a lot of doctors are wimps....don't have the courage to admit their patient actually might have cancer...so just keep on keeping on.


To the detriment of the patient:-(

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Morning gerries.:-x



Been reading TommyIrenes' jokes....some of them are really good.

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Morning seniors.......



Hope everyone has a great saturday!

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Afternoon all


 


Its cold and damp here today.


 

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Morning all 🙂



I worked in the health services for 30 years in one form or another and saw so many awful mistakes made by doctors...



They make my blood boil... and to think just one generation ago they were treated like gods.



I actually interviewed my doctor before I would commit to his care.  What won me over was him saying 'I don't know" and reaching for a book to look something up.



If a doctor can say 'I don't know' then I think we are on the right road 🙂  Anyway I hired him 17 years ago and haven't regretted it.



Well I have the new reverse cycle heater in and it's great. Have been able to turn off the underfloor heating with relief.



Yes cold and damp down here too moon.  Want to do some gardening, but must admit I am being put off by it.



Where's that Richo?



Have a good day everyone.






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Morning gerries-----im here Darki.


Not much of a day -wintery!


Will be staying in..........................Richo.

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