A segment from the middle of the article by Tony Windsor, I felt sorry for Tony Abbott.
http://www.theaustralian.com.au/life/weekend-australian-magazine/tony-windsor-i-felt-sorry-for-tony-...
Job done. Julia Gillard and Tony Abbott didn’t know our decisions before we made our statements. This was deliberate as we believed the Australian people should learn of our determination at the same time.
After our announcement we went to Abbott’s office. We’d had a fair bit of contact with the receptionist in his office over the previous two weeks and she was as pleasant as ever as we waited, saying, “I’ll let him know you are here.” Another of his staff came and told us, “He would like to see you but there are a few people with him, can you wait a bit while he gets himself together?” David Barnett, the former press secretary to Malcolm Fraser, came by and was clearly not happy. Bronwyn Bishop appeared and told us, “You will rue the day you did this.” Truss wished us well, while saying he wasn’t happy with the announcement. Ever the gentleman, I think he understood the process we had embarked on. We finally went into Abbott’s office and shared a cup of tea with him. He was obviously disappointed but he wasn’t aggressive. He was accepting of the result.
Rob and I next went to see Gillard. She was in her office with Swan and her staff. They were delighted and a few staff members were crying. We shook hands with Gillard and embraced.
While I hoped for a more civil parliament, I was not so naive as to believe we would all be holding hands and singing Kumbaya around the campfire to work harmoniously together for the benefit of the nation. Sadly, within days Abbott adopted the position that he would treat the hung parliament like any other parliament.
In a hung parliament the opposition leader potentially had as much power as the prime minister in relation to policy. He could have embarrassed the government by introducing better policy. It was an open book in terms of legislation. But he decided to be an opposition to a minority parliament. Abbott didn’t handle the rejection very well and with each day that passed his behaviour only reinforced to me that I had made the right decision. He was interested only in gaining power and set about doing everything in his capacity to bring down the Gillard Government. “I’ll be in the Lodge by Christmas” was the mantra.