What is something you've always wanted to know or experience about the other gender?

[the_bob_delusion]

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[boris1gary]

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@electric*mayhem*band wrote:

Why wimmin always ask, 'Do you think my bum looks big in this' ?, when they know full well it does.

What is the insane obsession with shoes, when they can't even walk in most of them ?

And the wearing of funnel web spiders stuck to their eyelids, in the middle of the day. Why ? ? ?

*legs it*

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i don't know why the shoe thing, i did it for a while. They look good in their box, pretty, shiny, sparkly things. Last year i took about 15 pairs, still in the box, mostly never worn to the oppy. I'm over it now, 3-4 pairs a year.

[boris1gary]

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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

To answer some pressing questions here:

do women appraise other women's shapeliness. Yes, some do, some don't. I don't, but I have heard remarks from women judging me.

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in the way bob suggested?

[amber-eyed-girl]

Why wimmin always ask, 'Do you think my bum looks big in this' ?, when they know full well it does.

What is the insane obsession with shoes, when they can't even walk in most of them ?

next answers:

I don't ask. The correct response would be, you look lovely.

shoes: I like shoes that are elegant, and I can walk in them, with high heels. I wear them for me, not men. Women who wear heels that are hard to walk in, either like the shoes or think whoever they are with likes them. A heeled shoe elongates the leg and produces a slimming effect.

[amber-eyed-girl]

Appraising eyes? Yes Boris. Once, I had two women walk past me and look at each other, sneer, and say rather loudly...fake.

they were judging on appearance. And sizing things up. Crudely.

[boris1gary]

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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

Appraising eyes? Yes Boris. Once, I had two women walk past me and look at each other, sneer, and say rather loudly...fake.

they were judging on appearance. And sizing things up. Crudely.

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yes i suppose most of us have commented on peoples appearance at one time or another. I've done it (still do, quietly) but not in the way Bob suggested. I don't notice other womans parts, unless they are ginormous, then I just feel sympathy for them.

[amber-eyed-girl]

I was a bit shocked...it was mean. And not exactly what one would have expected from women.

[amber-eyed-girl]

"how come blokes can stand all day/night." Asks Boris.

Because it makes them look taller 😉 

[amber-eyed-girl]

"how come blokes can stand all day/night." Asks Boris.

Because it makes them look taller 😉 

[boris1gary]

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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

I was a bit shocked...it was mean. And not exactly what one would have expected from women.

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Lots of women are mean, blokes can be pretty mean as well. I find mens meanness easier to deal with, most of my friends are men. I am not making any statement about women and men in general - just my personal experience.

[boris1gary]

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@amber-eyed-girl wrote:

"how come blokes can stand all day/night." Asks Boris.

Because it makes them look taller 😉 

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hahah, I only know tall men, functions, meetings etc, they are happy to stand and stand, i can't stand it. 

[boris1gary]

"how come blokes can stand all day/night." Asks Boris.

Because it makes them look taller 😉 

[amber-eyed-girl]

Maybe it is an unconscious power thing?