Buyer with neg feedback?

[07timoti123]

Hi all, can someone explain to me if a buyer is buying a item off you and see that they have neg/feedback while bidding on your item. Is it better to ride it out and wait to see if someone else will overbid them? I have a bulk boys size 1 clothes advertised couple of weeks ago and had to relist as the buyer did not pay. I have said that please dont bid unless you are prepared to pay for it. I dont want to have to relist again, as any seller just wasting time and money especially for the fees ( yes i did get the fees back ). Its frustrating when you do the right thing and then you get a buyer that dont pay or never recieve items. Aim i am trying to get @ is can i take my listing off, if this buyer wins? thank you kindly 😄