Why can't I find the leave feedback drop down for item I have sold. Buyer has left feedback 4 me

[ste720348]

I have been on ebay ages ago but I've been fumbling around for ages trying to do something as simple as leaving feedback for a purchaser (my first sale).  It used to be that there was a drop down box and option to leave feedback under My Ebay next to the item. I can't find it!  Am I looking in the wrong place? It was only recently. They have left feedback for me and I don't want to not leave feedback for them. sorry. I feel so ridiculous posting this question but I am doing something wrong! Thanks in advance

Also a buyer has purchased an item which was pick up only and I noticed their location is in Queensland. What is the best way to approach this?  I was just going to contact them. It looks like they have already paid. Not sure what to do. 

[twyngwyn]

message the buyer of the desk and ask them if they realised it was pick-up......if they didn't, you can cancel sale with "buyer asked to cancel"

for f/b: click on sold item, and it should be there