Who Are The Buyers Giving Defects? My Experience Only.

This is only from my own personal experience as a seller and may not be the general rule. Our bad buyers are only around 5%, so it would not matter to us in the greater scheme of things, but it certainly does matter to Ebay, so that is why we now have to BLOCK every BUYER who DEFECTS us,even if they do leave POSITIVE feedback. Why keep buying ... and keep defecting us?

 

Sad to say, ... these are our problem buyers: 

 

1. People receiving carer's pensions for looking after someone else who is disabled.

2. Disabled or very ill [not the aged] people who are on pensions.

3. Those on pensions for 'mental illness.' [Ebay staff are known to have particular empathy with these buyers. :)]

4. Unemployed.

5. Buyers 1-4 who take revenge using multiple accounts, usually because we refused to allow them to scam us.

 

6. Sellers who feel that we may be competing with them and feel annoyed. Usually spend 1.25.

 

In regards to 1-5, they've got time on their hands. They may or may not end up leaving Neg. or even defecting us, but even if they do not do that, they can still be a nuisance. They will usually spend an average of 1.25 and then whine for days about when the item will be arriving, sending "I Haven't Recieved My Item' emails after a couple of days. They will nearly always try to get a refund outside of the Paypal or Ebay system, so their multiple scams, are not left on record, except through their emails to the seller.

 

And Ebay supports this activity, because sellers are now defected when cases are opened at Paypal by buyers. Am I correct?

 

Not much we can do about who shops with us, and we would not want to discriminate against the above buyers either because there are good buyers who are in the 1-4 category. But our BLOCKED list grows longer by the day. My experiemce also shows that DEFECTS don't mean anything to other buyers, since our sales are still doing fine. BUT once Ebay hides our inventory again, the DEFECTS will mean something, because our sales will drop. Sometimes we do make mistakes [which we try to rectify], but mostly DEFECTS have nothing to do with who we are as a seller, and everything to do with our REFUSING liars and scammers.

 

We also now immediately BLOCK BUYERS who send rude, aggressive or idiotic emails when asking a question about an item.

 

The GOOD NEWS is that 95% of our BUYERS are AWESOME, but Ebay's SYSTEM, means that the 5% can IMPACT our selling.

 

 

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Who Are The Buyers Giving Defects? My Experience Only.

Click on Advanced (next to the Search button)

Scoll down to Sellers

Tick the Show Only Items from: box

then change Include to EXCLUDE and add the names you want to exclude.

 

Easi Peasi

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@fabulous-gift-emporium wrote:

Yes, they always tell us they are on carers or disability support pensions, ?! .... which is how I was able to write this post.

 

I'm not sure why. Perhaps to gain sympathy, a discount ... trying to get me to understand their situation. Stressed out. Lonely etc. Some will use it to try and emotionally blackmail. Others are depressed ... have numerous medical problems. No one to listen.

 

Okay, ... I can see that ... But when I tell them about the situation of my own family as well, usually after they have done the wrong thing ... stolen from us/ left unwarranted Neg. ... there is not much sympathy shown towards us at the end of the day ...

When I buy from a seller, I would never dream of telling them all about my personal situation. I like to keep it simple. Cheers,

 

 


Your scathing feedback left for other traders, and follow up comments to your own feedback received show exactly what type of seller you are.

 

You don't even appear to bother to contact the sellers that you leave negatives for - evidenced by some of your own responses in feedback.

 

Goodness me, you have the cheek to write one of the most judgemental OPs I've seen for a while. 

 

You reap what you sew, in more ways than one.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Well that's certainly handy and I've never noticed it before. Pity it's not permanent like the BBL and needs to be set for each individual search session, but it's a start, and certainly better than nothing. Thanks for that.
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@cq_tech wrote:
Well that's certainly handy and I've never noticed it before. Pity it's not permanent like the BBL and needs to be set for each individual search session, but it's a start, and certainly better than nothing. Thanks for that.

That's why you have saved searches,blum.gif

 

I've got one search that excludes all GSP sellers and a few with extreme postage,(took a bit to set up but that

 

saved search is now reduced to the 20% that I would buy from),good.gif

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Tazz, is there some way to exclude the GSP sellers, or do you have to add them individually (hence what took you the time to set it up)?

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"Not a gross generalisation. They tell us. Best not to make assumptions without knowing the facts. In regards to your posting our feedback and response here ...your ID pic and hidden feedback says it all. Hypocrite"

No, not a hypocrite, I don't have any negative feedback. If I did, I wouldn't be leaving any comments such as calling the buyer a Satanist. What has that got to do with an online transaction between a buyer and seller.

If a buyer did tell me any personal info in a msg during a transaction with them ,it would never be commented on in a feedback comment.

What has my ID pic got to do with anything? Do you know what it is?
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@i-love-my-sheep wrote:

Tazz, is there some way to exclude the GSP sellers, or do you have to add them individually (hence what took you the time to set it up)?


It would be nice if there was,unfortunately you have to do them individualy.

 

I opened two tabs and had the exclude list as one and then just scrolled down the actual search to find the selleres

 

that I wanted to exclude,(then just aded them to the list via copy and paste),good.gif

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SPRSSSHHHHHHHH SPRSHHHHHHH ..... If this can of Mortein doesn't work soon, I'm going to ask for a refund ...
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I don't know what went on, ...

That is correct. You don't.
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Agreed.

But I enjoy selling things that people in a lower income bracket can buy. I also get a lot of buyers who are obviously unemployed, stay at home single mums, housewives in isolated rural areas etc etc. No problem with any of them. ... It did suprise me about those who are disabled on pensions and particularly those on carers pensions. They are obviously under some kind of stress and sometimes, they must take it out on sellers on Ebay ... is the only conclusion I can draw ....
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