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So many people complain, or call people "trolls" if their feedback is set to private.


 


They assume, you have no idea what you're talking about, therefore, shouldn't have to the right to voice an opinion.


 


Why don't eBay just remember everyone's number from showing on the boards? Just have our usernames and "show listings" viewable.

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Agree totally Arnl, mine is purely set that way to protect ME.  I don't really mind if people ignore what I have to say but the assumption of ignorance or shady dealing before because of private feedback (or a different posting ID) is pretty silly.  

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Geez, you can tell I posted that at almost 2.30 this morning.


 


I meant to say "Why don't eBay REMOVE the number" lol

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To be honest, I don't think it will change much, if anything. As I've mentioned before, most people take issue with private FB or no sales history for a poster when they've clashed, and the person then uses those things as further reason to disagree with what has been said.


 


My grandma once told me she didn't like men with beards because they 'had something to hide'. Funnily enough that was only after my mother's partner - who she didn't like and had a beard - came on the scene. It's a cosmetic convenience to justify mistrust of what is perceived as the unknown, IMO. If anything, we'd probably just get a lot more of the "you must work for eBay...." responses as a way to dismiss the poster, and by virtue the content of their post. 

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DG while I generally agree with what you say, and understand why some do not wish to reveal there ID for all sorts of reason, it is not unreasonable for others to be sceptical of what low FB or Private posters say without proof of their experience.  (No matters how many others say they are great sellers with huge FB it is all only hearsay)  This ID shows no selling experience but 10+ years buying experience albeit with a low FB so on a buying question it should give me some standing but it would be reasonable to query my answers on selling issues.  My selling ID has 10+ years and FB over 10000 and I am a powerseller and use it on the powersellers board so I can back my answers there with considerable standing.(of coarse this may or may not be true, and there lies the problem).  Being on the boards a lot really doesn't equate to knowing much about selling or buying probably only that you should get a life.  Those who can, do; those who can't, tell us how they think it should be done.

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Agree totally Arnl, mine is purely set that way to protect ME.


 


Hi nonny, we find exactly the oposite!


Most posters who don't ever miss an oportunity to have a bit of a dig at us - all the usual collection of permanent posters here - have almost without the exception their f/back set to private, while ours isn't.


As we sell we can't have the private f/back - but even if that was possible we wouldn't consider it.


As grown people we all have our opinions, and not about to change them, or our temperament or personality to suit the boards.


One's opinion should  be the same weather it's voiced at a public rally, person to person or indeed the boards here.


Hiding behind nothing I personally find not convincing at all, always think of someone dobbing in someone annonymously which doesn't require any acountability - but I also couldn't care less who's private and who isn't here.


 


If it gives them the sense of security well and good, but if it a question of a serious slander that results in a damage of someone's reputation, private f/back wouldn't be any protection.


Mind you, haven't seen it happen as yet here - but it doeasn't mean it hasn't happened.


 


Each to their own.

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Some posters also face the problem of being accused of only posting to get people to see their listings thus dismissing any good advice they might have given.


 


My feedback on this ID is public at the moment but how does that change anything I have ever posted?


 


This is one of 3 IDs  and no one know if I buy or sell on the others and how many feedback I have on those ID so it really is pointless the argument about private or public feedback.


 


BTW this one is public because I listed the item on the wrong ID so it really is hard work having more than one ID, I have to remember who I am:^O:^O:^O:^O:^O:^O


 


I can only post on one ID otherwise I would probably end up disagreeing with myself about some issue and start calling myself a troll.:^O:^O:^O:^O:^O:^O

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DG while I generally agree with what you say, and understand why some do not wish to reveal there ID for all sorts of reason, it is not unreasonable for others to be sceptical of what low FB or Private posters say without proof of their experience.  (No matters how many others say they are great sellers with huge FB it is all only hearsay)  This ID shows no selling experience but 10+ years buying experience albeit with a low FB so on a buying question it should give me some standing but it would be reasonable to query my answers on selling issues.  My selling ID has 10+ years and FB over 10000 and I am a powerseller and use it on the powersellers board so I can back my answers there with considerable standing.(of coarse this may or may not be true, and there lies the problem).  Being on the boards a lot really doesn't equate to knowing much about selling or buying probably only that you should get a life.  Those who can, do; those who can't, tell us how they think it should be done.



 


I was more addressing the practice 'troll' catch cry based on private FB or a non-selling ID  - it only ever seems to happen when somebody doesn't like something that has been said, regardless of the merit of what was said.


 


When it comes to selling-specific questions where the answers are necessarily opinion-based, looking at someone's listings, their selling history and so forth can only provide so much credence to what has been said, and I don't think people should be more willing to agree with someone who has 10k FB than someone who has 100 FB - that seems just as bad to me as the opposite tendency. If it's about policies and so forth, interpretations aside, they can be researched and/or backed up with links.


 


Personally, I tend to just relate what works for me, and hope that it may be of benefit in general, and while I don't use my main selling ID to post here, it's definitely not the world's best kept secret. :8}. 


 


I don't expect anyone to agree with or trust what I say just because I say it, in fact I would hope they don't no matter which ID I posted with. But while I can understand why someone would tend to feel more confident in certain types of advice coming from a visibly experienced member, it can have its drawbacks too, considering I have seen some very high FB members display a distinct misunderstanding and/or lack of awareness of some very basic policies, and even provide totally inaccurate advice.


 


Long before I ever participated on these boards, I got used to assessing the content of a post, not the poster, due to the absolute anonymity of them - because of that, I find it difficult to understand why some people are more willing to critically assess feedback numbers etc than the content of posts. 

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I have seen some very high FB members display a distinct misunderstanding and/or lack of awareness of some very basic policies, and even provide totally inaccurate advice.


 


DG  just recently a  once respected poster admitted to shill bidding their own auctions and very quickly they had no credibility at all.


 


I find the best way to use the advise given here is to be guided by it buy check ebay policy if a poster is claiming to know that policy like the back of their hand.

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I have seen some very high FB members display a distinct misunderstanding and/or lack of awareness of some very basic policies, and even provide totally inaccurate advice.


 


DG  just recently a  once respected poster admitted to shill bidding their own auctions and very quickly they had no credibility at all.


 


 



 


Well, that would be the quintessential example of the content of a post affecting credibility. 😉


 


And likewise, sans rules and regulations, I read, consider, contemplate, pick and choose what seems relevant to my personal circumstances and ultimately apply those that I want to try or feel would work for me - then I'll come back sometime and relate my experiences etc and maybe get someone else reading, considering.... :^O

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