Priorities confusion.

[michellebartley]

I ordered an item but didnt pay at that time I ordered it but got a reminder from ebay asking for me to pay. Of course I paid a few days later but now seller hasnt posted item and wont reply to my emails either. They have their priorities confused somewhat.Seller is from UK. Really really annoying and disappointing.

[annies_fancy_dress]

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@2011.narelle wrote:

Michelle you don't seem to understand why people get annoyed with you,or you enjoy any attention positive or negative.Great She El & Chezzy touched on that & I've been thinking that myself.

My view of you is,well very few women under 35 (more like 40 but I'm kinda being nice) are named Michelle,so you are 35+

You live alone with pets.

Very attention seeking,impatient,too much time on your hands,bored & create drama to fill time.

High maintenance = lonely.

Watch Dr Phil, sort your carp out so you can be a happier person instead of an irritant.As compelling as that may be.

Looks like you even tested the patience of judge Ghosty,probably the most factual even tempered person on the boards.

No this is nothing about eBay but OMG it's like a pothole!Can't avoid it,makes you swear & you know it's gonna take a week & a team of men with a jackhammer & a shovel to fix it.& even then you know it's gonna crack & be a problem again.

Start selling some things on eBay so you will at least have some real issues to write about on the boards.

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Insulting her and judging her name is just lowering yourself to what you perceive is her level.

She may deserve it in many opinions but that's not an excuse to blah your own faults out here.

I know a lovely young lady of 25 named Michelle, so they are out there. However I do remember the 70's and 80's in school where  most school years had between 2 and 5 girls named Michelle.

Now with have inordinate numbers of Morgan, Ashleigh Brittany etc. I have a niece named Madison. These girl's names were unheard of a generation ago in girl's.

So let's stop both abusing and entertaining her. I'm happy to let her learn what she can on her own.

We all know some people can't be told anyway.

[chezzy]

Hey, the name could even be made up...or be her Mum's name, who knows? I am sure more than one person here has a 'visual'.

One thing for sure is many have spent their time, energy and knowledge giving advice (not just to this person but others to) to have it (seemingly) fall on deaf ears.

[grumpy*cat*rocks]

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@chezzy wrote:

Hey, the name could even be made up...or be her Mum's name, who knows? I am sure more than one person here has a 'visual'.

One thing for sure is many have spent their time, energy and knowledge giving advice (not just to this person but others to) to have it (seemingly) fall on deaf ears.

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And there is a lot more we were not told about this transaction too. She gave that particular seller a pretty rough time of it, but of course does not mention that here because to the OP it's all the sellers fault, end of story.

As I said before, there's 2 sides to every story and I'm inclined to believe the OP's previous issues have also got a lot more behind them than what was divulged on here.

[michellebartley]

Im 58yrs old. Hate Dr.Phil. And my name is Michelle. And thankyou everyone for your comments. I have enjoyed reading them.

[lyndal1838]

I would be ashamed to admit to being 58 years old and have learned so little in all that time.

[imastawka]

She must get it right at least some of the time,  lol

Here's her latest fb   -  (read it and weep)

Hope all eBay buyers can be like you. Wonderful experience. Thank you very muc

[shepherdsrule]

There have been in the past, a few members who come here to ask a question (you know who you are) merely to receive responses and may be feel a they are a part of the community.

To those, try  CS or to the games boards, you can join in any thread without humuliation or judgement.

....Usually

[davewil1964]

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@michellebartley wrote:
Im 58yrs old. Hate Dr.Phil. And my name is Michelle. And thankyou everyone for your comments. I have enjoyed reading them.

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Snap.. Sort of. My name is not Michelle and I worked out eBay several years ago.