Advice needed: What/how to say to someone that you're not interested......

[the_bob_delusion]

in a nice way so it doesn't hurt their feelings?

[spotweldersfriend]

The eternal question that I can't answer.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHIe9B5plDI&feature=youtube_gdata_player

[kopenhagen5]

The truth.

Can be, I am enjoying being by myself now.

I am not looking to be with anyone right now.

On the other hand, if you have let it go on for some time, sorry bob, you will simply stew in your own juices.

[**meep**]

Start acting in a way that will make them lose interest in you.

[**meep**]

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@kopenhagen5 wrote:

The truth.

Can be, I am enjoying being by myself now.

I am not looking to be with anyone right now.

On the other hand, if you have let it go on for some time, sorry bob, you will simply stew in your own juices.

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Telling the truth will hurt their feelings, I'm sure.

[poddster]

If they are of the opposite gender , tell them that you like them but that you are gay 🙂

[spotweldersfriend]

Meeps got a point.Boxes of empty beer cans on the back porch,dishes piled up in the sink,bedroom littered with dirty underwear....hey wait a minute!! That sounds like the majority of married Australian men.On second thoughts forget about that strategy.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@**meep** wrote:

Start acting in a way that will make them lose interest in you.

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qualifier, without making me look like an ass either. 

[joz*garage]

The truth.

yep, its the only way to go

 & good communication skills does help.. so is not to hurt their feelings (assertion, you know)

just man up will ya, but.. be gentle

[joz*garage]

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@**freethinker_bob** wrote:

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@**meep** wrote:

Start acting in a way that will make them lose interest in you.

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qualifier, without making me look like an ***bleep*** either. 

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yeah and might make you feel like a false coward