@dvd.horder wrote:i have had plenty of girlfriends as a young man ..but no cougars ..yet
Yes and no dvd,horder. Look, what goes on between a man and woman during physical intimacy is magic! For some men it could be a good thing. I personally know men in their 40s and older who have never even kissed a girl. They would like to but it's now it is too late to hit the ground running.
I've had a few girlfriends myself in the past. The problem as I see it is that while it's exciting fun for a young man to be intimate with a woman 10, 20, 30 years and yes sometimes 40 years older ( I remember reading young men's comments about actress Lauren Hutton when she turned 60 and what they'd like to do to her ), it can influence a man's behaviour later which can carry on on over info future relationships that could have potential for marriage or starting a family.
LAUREN HUTTON
ultimately a man should find that good for him woman and settle down. Having a bit of fun can be OK but like the saying goes, " too much of a good thing can be bad " or "What's good to you isn't always good for you" Being faithful and settling down is best and there's a lot that comes into the mix. Sometimes that :"Cougar fun" can later on make that harder to do.
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BTW: Lauren Hutton played a cougar type role in a film
