At what age is it okay for a sleep over?

[givemeaspell]

For your son/daughter to allow their partners to spend the night (same bed) in your family home?

[Anonymous]

What has happened to bonking in the car.

rofl ... Kids get it so easy these days !

[daydream**believer]

Personally, I agree with the majority here.  18+.  Once they become adults, not sure how we as parents can have any say in it. 

while they live in your house, you can have plenty of say in it

[crystal**flake]

rofl ... Kids get it so easy these days !

LOL I know right, now that can bonk at home :^O

[Anonymous]

LOL I know right, now that can bonk at home :^O

Take away the queen size bed and give them a mini minor ..that'll learn em ha ha .

[daydream**believer]

Ahhh, bonking in the back seat of the Torana down at Devils Elbow in Dubbo...those were the days

[**meep**]

while they live in your house, you can have plenty of say in it

Yes, true.  I am hoping that when my daughter becomes and adult we will remain to have a mutual respect so it won't be a matter of not allowing her to do anything, if that makes sense.  I guess we will have to wait and see.  Not that long to go :_|

[kyliecrv]

No way would I allow my 16 y/o to have bf stay over.

She had a nice bf for close to 2 yrs, they broke up a few months ago. They didnt get that much 'alone' time, didn't have sex, I know this.

i have a nearly 14 y/o son..... And a 1 y/o, I can't imagine anytime soon that the situation would arise for a sleepover, I will have to assess the whole scenario when it does, not before 18.

[daydream**believer]

i agree with that meep.

For me, it was a matter of having to much respect for my parents that i didnt ask to have my bf sleep over. I also never, ever swore in front of my parents and still wouldnt

[poison_ivys_pen]

I don't think I'd ever allow it in my home to be honest but never say never.

But if I was it would have to be over 18 and in a well established relationship I would think before it would be considered.  I don't think 16 is a good age to allow it but that is JMHO.

Nothing wrong with still doing it in a car Crystal and I'd say a lot still do that will never change.

Anyone ever tried in a moving Car? now that is an experience.

[i-need-a-martini]

She had a nice bf for close to 2 yrs, they broke up a few months ago. They didnt get that much 'alone' time, didn't have sex, I know this.

How do you know this?