on 09-12-2020 02:26 PM
A man loses his wife and the impact of that and the attempt to cope with the lost causes him to be evicted from his home.
Evicted After Wife Died, Now Homeless in Venice Beach
59,727 views•Dec 2, 2020834K subscribersSimba (street name) met his wife fishing. I love that. Sadly, Simba's wife was very sick from complications with diabetes. She needed a kidney transplant. Simba's wife was on the transplant list at USC Medical Center, but while she was waiting for a donor, her health got worse. The emotional stress of being her caregiver was hard enough; when his wife died, Simba became severely depressed. He started to self medicate with marijuana to help him sleep. This was four years ago, and people's views of marijuana were much different then. Today, it probably would not even be an issue, but Simba's landlord used his cannabis use to evict him
on 10-12-2020 08:33 AM
I think it is true that an event can trigger a downward slide, but I don't think that one event is ever the whole story. History is made of lots of little events and situations. There is rarely just one cause for anything.
With this man, the real trigger seems to have been depression.
The landlord may well have evicted him for drug taking but we don't know the whole story, maybe the drug taking was the last straw. None of it has to necessarily be based on racism, although in the US it is not out of the question that that could be an element for some people.
I've heard of quite a lot of people here becoming homeless after marriage breakdowns. Often women and children suddenly left with very little.
But the question that goes through my mind is what is their support system like? friends, extended family etc. Usually you would think family would bend over backwards to help a member in trouble, but if they are struggling themselves or renting, they may not be able to.
Other factors in homelessness can be violent home backgrounds, drug or alcohol addiction, mental health issues, unemployment and sometimes a combination of those things. I don't think there's an easy fix. But there definitely should be more support for those with mental health issues etc
I'll give you an example of something here that I don't think was properly handled. I know of a man in his 20's, aboriginal descent, who was born I think with foetal alcohol syndrome and has some problems mentally processing some things. He is not good with things like time management, organisation. trouble with alcohol & drugs. Was at a rehab place here in Vic where the residents were kept busy, able to do eg wood work. He liked it there but was expelled because he missed some of the compulsory social worker sessions. Now, for someone with his problems, wouldn't you think it was predictable he would need extra help to make sure he was keeping to his schedule?
But their 'solution' was he had to move out, so he ended up in a different rehab centre and has to re-apply for the original and serve a waiting period before he can enter again. the current rehab place, he does not like much and talked about leaving. Their advice was he was free to leave if he wanted and should find himself a boarding house.
A friend of mine said he could stay at their place to sort himself out while awaiting return to 1st rehab centre but-she was told this could not be done (this was during covid lockdown here in Vic) as he was not a member of her household and she would be in breach of the law. This was info from covid hotline.
Now, wouldn't a place with family be better than turning a person like this onto the streets, to sink or swim?
PS He decided (after much persuading by family) to stay with the half way house and is still there.
But if that is the best that our system can dish up, it's not impressive.
on 10-12-2020 09:49 AM
@not_for_sale2025 wrote:
@4channel wrote:* * *
@4channel wrote:
It's nothiong to do with my potential or what you suggest it to be D.
I hope he can find a way or reserve strength.
He lives in the US. The US is a joke. Systemic racism is galvannized to the country's structure. Look at the past presidents and the corruption. Bush, Clinton, Bush, Obama, Trump. The worst of the worst in humanity! The most filthy lies and immorality is exemplified in every onne of it's presidents of the past 30 plus years.
Man .... the crooked Nixon even shines above these pigs.
@not_for_sale2025 wrote:
Lets hope he doesn't hate his country as much as you seem to. Lets hope he can re-gather his strength and his faith in his own abilities, despite the challenges he may confront.
4channel writes:
I don't know why you're putting a negative spin on what I'm saying and suggesting I'm saying something additional to what I have said. That's incorrect! And I don't hate the US. I despise the corruption and I feel sickened at the low-life political figures who willingly betray their people. I'm saddened that the people of the US have been so distracted that they have had the wool pulled over their eyes yet again. And I'm disgusted that Murdoch and other media gods destroyed the last great hope for the US, Ron Paul's chances of being presidents by "Media Blackout of Ron Paul" . I just like fairness. That doesn't amount to hatred!
So let's see if this homeless gentleman at age 65 can reclaim at least some of what he once had.
A good film to watch is .... Michael Moore's Sicko and Capitalism: A Love Story.
Ok then, you don't hate the US.
"The US is a joke, systemic racism, corrupt Presidents, the most filthy lies and immorality, pigs, sickened by the low-life, and betrayers". Sorry, I must have misinterpreted what you wrote.
You're not alone. But I think you were right the first time, and so was Lyndal.
on 10-12-2020 10:06 AM
Don't fret. He won't be on the streets long. The radiation from the 5G towers will kill him off pretty quickly.
on 10-12-2020 10:09 AM
You have made some valid points spingyzone. Yes and with the indigenous chap too. Yes, there's probably more to Simba's story than what we see on the surface in the interview. Having a support of family and friends could have made a big difference in this man's life and you're probably right about depression. Maybe the depression setting in after losing his wife caused him to not look after his own financial affairs properly and the smoking of weed was the last straw. The fact that there was a non-smoking policy at Simba's residence now makes me wonder if he was in some kind of supervised housing project.
on 10-12-2020 10:53 AM
Re: Becoming homeless - How an event creates a downward slide
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@lalbo-81 wrote:
You're not alone. But I think you were right the first time, and so was Lyndal.
Please, if you're not willing to engage in proper discussions then you can have an option to entertain yourself elsewhere.
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@*tippy*toes* wrote:
Don't fret. He won't be on the streets long. The radiation from the 5G towers will kill him off pretty quickly.
Interesting post *tippy*toes* and you may have touched on an issue without realising how important it is. How it affects him being homeless we should discuss here. But the technical side of the 5G can be discussed at the below link.
Re: 5G phone network: Expert concerned by lack of understanding of potential health effects
on 10-12-2020 10:58 AM
Similarly - you have the option - not to pass comment.
on 10-12-2020 11:02 AM
Wow, that was a quick kudo from imastawka too. Hey are you back with THE CIRCLE?
Anyway, my post is relavent to the thread which I started.
on 10-12-2020 11:15 AM
Yeah, coz 5G causes homelessness. I'm guessing GM food does too. The world is doomed. Doomed I say.
on 10-12-2020 11:15 AM
LOL - that's because I'm Stawka - as well.
on 10-12-2020 11:33 AM
@4channel wrote:Wow, that was a quick kudo from imastawka too. Hey are you back with THE CIRCLE?
Anyway, my post is relavent to the thread which I started.
And guess what, I kudod it too, though I don't know of any circles. Call it 'the ring of confidence' like a certain toothpaste used to advertise. But hang on, that contained fluoride.