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on โ23-10-2010 07:35 PM
Hello to the thread:)
Please say a prayer for me today as I do the second hardest thing I have ever done in this life.
Today I sign Ashley into permanent care and take him there
We have found a lovely place for him, it is the second best home in our area and I think we are very fortunate to get it.
My brother has arrived from Brisbane to be with Mum as she cannot face it and due to the bad blood between Ash and Gary it has to be Mr Beam and myself who do it.
I am disappointed his favorite daughter will not be here but she cannot face it.
He will be in a high care dementia facility and I went yesterday and decorated his room for him and put his clothes there.
Mum is too fragile to care for him anymore and he will not come to me so this is the way it has to be.
I have got on well extremely so with this man for most of my life but due to me having to help them so much over the past 5 years he has decided I am arch enemy no I, he did 2 weeks ago hug and cuddle me when Mum had to go to hospital so I am hoping it will be ok today
I need the strength and wisdom to be able to handle this well, sorry to sound so morbid but I have had a lot of help and support from many of you here so I know you all will hold good thoughts for me today. Thanks and love to you from this ol dameโฅ
on โ23-10-2010 07:37 PM
on โ23-10-2010 07:39 PM
on โ23-10-2010 07:40 PM
Bella how's it going?
Hey miss, so sorry I just relaised I hadn't answered your question! OH had a follow up ecg and appears ok at this stage. On the fc front well thats going downhill fast, have a meeting Wed. So please send thoughts and prayers my way for it. It's not easy dealing with agency workers but I know we can do this and do it well.
Hope you are well miss:-x
on โ24-10-2010 10:35 AM
on โ25-10-2010 04:03 PM
Good morning to the thread, a lovely day up my way
Thankyou Jen and welcome back, yep i am sure you know only too well the guilt associated with all of this but I know he is in the best place, as now he has decided that I am no 1 in his life and he begs me to squeeze him into the car and take him home.
I just could not do it now as Mum is failing and it is pretty much full on with her, though I do think it will get better:)
On a positive note I hope you had a lovely break, I am so looking forward to one of those soon
My mums sister is coming down for a week so I shall have some ME time soon:)
Blessings to you allโฅ