on โ24-01-2011 10:15 PM
on โ05-11-2012 12:23 AM
Of course he'll do what he can to gain your sympathy.
It's okay to feel sorry for him but remember you have given him lots of chances. :-x
on โ05-11-2012 05:25 PM
on โ07-11-2012 12:52 PM
Hi everyone :-x
It's starting to get to the busy time of the year .... I have 6 birthday presents to find and buy before I even think about Xmas presents ๐ฎ
I hope everyone is doing ok.
on โ07-11-2012 01:53 PM
Hey mioux โฅ
I love this time of the year!! ๐
My sisters wedding is in 10 days! We are getting so excited! Our dresses are in today so I will be trying it on tonight.
I need to make Samanthas headband and finish my Matron of Honor speech. Saturday is a rehearsal at the Gardens, and next week will be all the pretty-fying!! haha!
At work so just passing by....
Hugs to those who need them, self hug included!! X
on โ08-11-2012 12:08 AM
Really upset here ๐ we had big fights about money...... Knew that was coming!!
He has found somewhere (pretty awesome) to live, but is pi$$ed at me for not wanting to "try to work on things".
Its like he is punishing me for breaking up by making things financially hard, child support will also be a big issue upcoming!
I wonder if we can still remain friendly when all is said n done? I had hoped so, maybe unrealistic??
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on โ08-11-2012 07:28 AM
Hugs Kylie. It wont be easy but once it is sorted out, you will have to communicate over visiting rights and things should settle down. Let's hope he has another relationship fairly quick.
on โ08-11-2012 12:50 PM
Kylie it takes a very mature man to handle a break up, and all that comes with it, with the attitude of having their child's best interests at heart.
I hope your 'soon to be ex' settles down, as Rose said.
But be prepared. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. :-x
PS I hope you have a wonderful time at your sisters wedding!
on โ08-11-2012 08:43 PM
on โ08-11-2012 09:21 PM
Evening all you wise travellers!
(((Kylie))) :-xmy heart goes out to you-hang in there.I think you can seriously think of yourself as brave and honest and not hypocritical at all. Dont beat yourself up- you are in a tough situation, and you are doing your BEST..that mr is being incredibly stubborn and blind to reality.
Actually,he shows signs of cowardice, but hes not your concern.
You are your concern, your children are your concern and thats IT. Not his behaviour,not his feelings.OK? Continue to be brave, we are all here for you, and if you need to vent-go for it.
We all admire you and the tough decision you made for you and your kids.
ms Cat,hope you are chanting and taking care of yourself.. thanks for your kind words..:-x:8}
thinking with :-x for freddie and mr freddie and cj..I guess braff is having a fabulous adventure as usual!Wish she would come here and share!
big higs and hugs to those who need them-some days are diamonds..
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on โ08-11-2012 09:33 PM
Thankyou lovely youcan together with all the kind OK'ers, we got word today my OH's surgery will take place 22nd, we need to go to Sydney next week for a pre admission clinic, if all goes well with the tests, we will return home and go back on 20th. The surgery is quite extensive taking 8 hrs or more, I guess they will keep him heavily sedated for a few days after.
One step at a time โฅ
Kylie thinking of you, you deserve to be happy with no regrets โฅ
Where's jacks? ๐ฎ Has she been lady napped? Is she having a romantic time? Come back Jack :^O
Waves to catty, and all the OKer's.โฅ