Cat_mioux's new home

[cat_mioux]

:^O

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Higs and Hugs.

thinking of you all.

We have decided not to take the Yarragon property, it is the opposite direction to where we want to live, so..... for the moment we are moving in with daughter in Frankston.

Going to be fun and games *sob* lol, 2 bedroom 4 adults, 1 dog and 2 inside kitties, and no screen doors, so going to have to be extra diligent when people go in and out.

We decided on this move, because it means we won't just sit and talk about moving, we will actually have to get out and look for some-where.

Our furniture etc is going into storage, will just take the bare minimum of what we need.

Oh yes! Isn't this going to be FUN!!!!! 

It won't really be all that bad, they are mostly out, with work, uni and other things.

Doggy will be happy to see us there all the time.

[cat_mioux]

Cuddly

At least you'll really appreciate your own home after this ... lol. As much as we love them, it's sometimes a strain living with a household of people.

I don't have a screen door either. I've learnt to look at my feet when opening the door. They scoot out between them!

[my2cuddlycats_not]

They sure do, Cat! Especially Lucy, Mahogany has always been an inside cat, but Lucy hasn't.

We'll get there, just going to have to be a lot of compromising, on both sides.

And it is a change, us moving in there, she usually comes back home! 

[kyliecrv]

Really anxious about today's visit with the Ex as we had 'words' yesterday and I sent him a text laying down ground rules if he wants to visit my home again.
Didn't hear back but he usually comes for an hour & half Wednesdays, so not sure what I will be putting up with! Hopefully the silent treatment as I'd prefer that he doesn't speak to me.

[toon_town_nutter]

Stay strong. I honestly don't know how you stayed married to him for so long, he's like a manchild. 

[my2cuddlycats_not]

higs and hugs.

so over this packing gig *sigh*

have been culling, but probably still not enough, but, one step at a time, and I have gotten to the stage where if there is space in a box whatever gets chucked in! lol

Sitting on my behind now, should be packing, but got a kitty on my lap, cruel to disturb her, isn't it? 

[freddie*rooster]

Any excuse is a good one when it comes to packing cuddly I'm pleased it's you and not me.

Hope all went well for you on Wednesday Kylie, it must be so stressing for you, I remember it all so well, the butterflies in the tummy on visitation days OMG I couldn't do that again.

[freddie*rooster]

I've been watching and listening to these female jurno's carrying on about Prince Harry, it's sickening really!! Maybe i'm just old and over all this spunkaroony stuff

[kyliecrv]

Stay strong. I honestly don't know how you stayed married to him for so long, he's like a manchild. 

Toonie: I know, it's so much like dealing with a naughty child that I cant imagine I wasted so much time & energy on him!! I look at him through much different eyes these days! He has no-one to talk to and no-one to give him any attention so he stirs me up!

It's been a roller coaster long weekend!

Here's an awkward situation..... On the footy G/F day my middle sis, Miss 16 & bubba & myself go out to dinner (to avoid the game & its spectators!), we arrive outside a certain local Steak house to find mr Ex on a DATE!! Yikes!! hahaha... I SO wanted to strut past and make a scene, (I would actually NEVER do that!!!) but just hustled everyone back and to a much farther away place!!!! (He didnt see us at all!)

Imagine bubba calling out "daddy daddy!".... might've chased the date away!!?? LoL

Next day I ask him if he had a good night and he says he just watched the footy! OMG! I looked him in the eyes and said "Ummm, i dont think so", and explained that I was AT the place.... to which he refused to look me in the eyes or even speak to me any further! Hmmmm, so mature!

I just love the fact that he's been playing the devo hubby/daddy and that he cant move on or get on with life cos he wants us back so desperately, (tells me that when he's not with baby, he sits home all depressed and sorry for what he's caused) ....

oh, except for the dating, hahah, that's been kept on the low, i guess so he doesnt look  like a hypocrite, but also so I dont start dating, as he tries to find out constantly if Ive met anyone!!

We will hopefully be done with mediation by the end of this month?! And then need to deal with Xmas & bubba's January bday! (she will be 2 yrs old in about 3 months time!!!)

And of course I have my family trip that im sure he will object to me taking her on end of Feb! ohhhhhhh..... never ends! 😞

[kyliecrv]

Stay strong. I honestly don't know how you stayed married to him for so long, he's like a manchild. 

Toonie: I know, it's so much like dealing with a naughty child that I cant imagine I wasted so much time & energy on him!! I look at him through much different eyes these days! He has no-one to talk to and no-one to give him any attention so he stirs me up!

It's been a roller coaster long weekend!

Here's an awkward situation..... On the footy G/F day my middle sis, Miss 16 & bubba & myself go out to dinner (to avoid the game & its spectators!), we arrive outside a certain local Steak house to find mr Ex on a DATE!! Yikes!! hahaha... I SO wanted to strut past and make a scene, (I would actually NEVER do that!!!) but just hustled everyone back and to a much farther away place!!!! (He didnt see us at all!)

Imagine bubba calling out "daddy daddy!".... might've chased the date away!!?? LoL

Next day I ask him if he had a good night and he says he just watched the footy! OMG! I looked him in the eyes and said "Ummm, i dont think so", and explained that I was AT the place.... to which he refused to look me in the eyes or even speak to me any further! Hmmmm, so mature!

I just love the fact that he's been playing the devo hubby/daddy and that he cant move on or get on with life cos he wants us back so desperately, (tells me that when he's not with baby, he sits home all depressed and sorry for what he's caused) ....

oh, except for the dating, hahah, that's been kept on the low, i guess so he doesnt look  like a hypocrite, but also so I dont start dating, as he tries to find out constantly if Ive met anyone!!

We will hopefully be done with mediation by the end of this month?! And then need to deal with Xmas & bubba's January bday! (she will be 2 yrs old in about 3 months time!!!)

And of course I have my family trip that im sure he will object to me taking her on end of Feb! ohhhhhhh..... never ends! 😞

[kyliecrv]

Another week..... and Im at work again!!
So tired after much fun with the cheeky girl over the weekend! She is 21 months old on Wed and sliding into the "2 yr old" role very nicely with all her development!
We have found a lovely little water park near by and it is her fave place to go to right now, we went on both Sat & Sun with her (early before the heat set in in NSW). Id love to share an updated pic!

Eldest daughter turns 17 on Wed and is being taken out for the day with my mum & sis to a show (Grease) and lunch in the City, she cant wait, its a surprise, all she knows is she is getting a (rare) day off school! 🙂
Also much excitement is that she has started her first job!! Found, applied and got it all by herself, and after only 2 shifts LOVES it as it is in a field that she adores!! **proud mum**

Have a GREAT week everyone!! Hope the world is treating you all OK?!?! ♥