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[cat_mioux]

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[cat_mioux]

Hi

Heard him on the phone .. his family have organised a rental in his home town. Possibly ready March. He has given notice at work . Had a huge arguement. He keeps saying the affair 'just happened'. I said "nothing just happens! You made it happen".

I hate it that everything seems to be falling into place for him. Everyone runs after him and sorts his life out for him.

[soundcollector65]

Seems like he's playing the 'poor me' game and others are falling for it

[my2cuddlycats_not]

My first thought was, don't even bother talking to/with him, Cat.

Let him do what he is going to do.

Don't let him see it is affecting you.

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[cat_mioux]

My first thought was, don't even bother talking to/with him, Cat.

Let him do what he is going to do.

Don't let him see it is affecting you.

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God I'm trying but I'm so angry. I know the anger is just covering up the hurt and pain. I feel like punching his head in.

[clair.de.lune]

What a baby he is. Hold your head up high cat you will win in the end 🙂

[millerjblj]

While things may be falling into place for him Cat, you can bet your orange knickers that in another time and another place he will be in the exact same situation. He will have learnt absolutely nothing.

You on the other hand will be on a completely different plane to him.

Doesnt matter what he does for a job, or where he lives, he will never be able to run away from himself.

I live by the motto,

It's not about the destination, it's about the journey.

[soundcollector65]

The way I see it Cat, is he's made a mess and now he's got everyone cleaning up after him. truly is a sign of immaturity and selfishness. people very quickly wake up to tossers like that.

You need to stay focussed on what you have achieved thus far.......you have your dignity, reputation and peace of mind that you have done no wrong........he's not even close to having any of these.

[blacksheep9772]

I'm just lovin how far this Orange Undie Day has gone! As I've said, I'll be in it too. I will be smiling like a stupid crazy woman all day cause I too will be wearing my orange undies and thinking of all the others joining me across Australia. :-x

Sure, there will be many people who won't know what the hell we've been drinking, smoking etc (and we may spend some time in a padded cell with all the lolcats who followed us in), but we will be united!! :^O

Wow there really are some strong women here! Now for those of you who have said you WERENT STRONG AT THE TIME - you are very wrong!!! I'm sorry to be abrupt, but it takes guts to 'do what you have to do' to get your situation right again. It is so easy to just stay in bed, try to ignore what is going wrong and give up. It's STRENGTH that gets you out of that mind set!

I totally understand (and have done it myself) wanting to just do nothing, thinking about giving up on the whole messy situation - but sometimes I think that is just what we might need right then. It gives us time to think, time with ourselves and our own thoughts. I find that is when I can come back to reality with a clear head and able to tackle things head on.

Cat honey, you are strong. Even in those moments when you need to go away and cry. If that is what is needed for you right then - then do it! It's OK to allow yourself to FEEL what you are feeling. One day, you will wake up and realise you just dont need to cry anymore. So let it out now!

You've always got us! And we are all going to be wearing orange undies - so that means (It's like a law now!) that we are strong, happy and we will be OK!! :-x And I think it also means if we eat some yummy chocolates on Feb 14th while we are wearing Orange Undies, that we wont put on weight either!!! (Cause you know, it's a speshal day an all;-) Even IF we have to buy them for ourselves!!)

Love and hugs everyone! :-x

[blacksheep9772]

Well said millerjblj. I totally agree with you. 🙂

[sallyjane2011]

You are strong and will learn from this and grow. He is a baby and will learn nothing and will remain an ignoramus.