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[cat_mioux]

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[dtrh3]

Dear Ms Cat,
Just checking in to see how you are travelling-am sending good and strong energy your way. :-x

Mr Cat is in a very fearful place and anyone helping him knows this-its OK to be angry,as this will pass.

Whatever he does,it is of no concern to you as he is now a stranger.
Whatever objects he takes,they are just stuff-think of all the space you will have when he is gone-physical as well as spiritual..

You are stronger and braver than you know,and when you look in the mirror,can see the energy in your eyes.One step at a time,one day at a time..:-x

[cat_mioux]

Doesnt matter what he does for a job, or where he lives, he will never be able to run away from himself.

yep totally agree - a tool is a tool no matter what shed it is in

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As Cyn said 'let the future take care of itself'. I can lay on cushions on the floor with my cats around me. In blissful quiet and peace. I'm sure things will all fall into place and I will receive when the time is right.

What would I do without you? Feeling a bit better now. :-x

[cat_mioux]

Dear Ms Cat,
Just checking in to see how you are travelling-am sending good and strong energy your way. :-x

Mr Cat is in a very fearful place and anyone helping him knows this-its OK to be angry,as this will pass.

Whatever he does,it is of no concern to you as he is now a stranger.
Whatever objects he takes,they are just stuff-think of all the space you will have when he is gone-physical as well as spiritual..

You are stronger and braver than you know,and when you look in the mirror,can see the energy in your eyes.One step at a time,one day at a time..:-x

:-x Yes, it is just stuff. I gave him a beautiful Buddha statue which he know I love. He's taking that too. I got upset. Which is very non-Buddhist as Buddhism states attachment to material possessions can cause suffering. So I'm letting it go, as hard as it is. 🙂

[azureline**]

advertise for a housemate with a lawnmower, a couch and those other things.....

[thebraff]

Hello Cat.

I am having a trial run with my orange undies tonight.

A very special occasion. I am going to see

so with wearing the undies I know it will be an exceptional night.

Take care :-x

[cynthecowgirl]

So what if you have to buy a $7 outdoor chair from KMart to have something to sit on.

Who cares if you have to eat off disposable plates.

So what if you have to take someone else's second hand whatever it may be cause you don't have one or can't afford one yet.

The point is, what ever it is you have, it will be yours and nobody can take if from you. You might not be able to afford things now, but later on you'll slowly build up your own stuff.

I was stuff..ed coz I had nine foot ceilings and nothing to use to climb up on to change the blown light globes with. Well now I have 2 ladders.:-D If you need a ladder you can have one of mine. ( I mean that)

Those things are only possessions anyway. Don't sweat over what you've got compared to someone else. Those things won't make you happy. They'll make life easier, but they won't make you happy.

Last weekend I went camping and slept in a tent with a mattress, pillow and doona. Drop toilet with no shower, camp fire for cooking. Esky for food storage and only 2 $7 K mart chairs to sit on. First night we sat out in the darkness as it slowly drizzled enough to dampen us, but not our spirit. Compared to what I have at home everyday I had nothing, but was I happy. Hell yeah. Happier and more relaxed than I've been in years.

Don't think possessions will make you happy. You've got to do that for yourself.

[beach_and_home]

hi cat, read just before that were feeling angry and I thought maybe you are going through the 7 stages of grief.

1/ shock and denial
2/ pain and guilt
3/ anger
4/ reflection, loneliness
5/ upward turn
6/ reconstruction and working through
7/ acceptance and hope

If so, then at least you are up to number 3 already !!! A relationship breakup is a 'loss', not as severe as death, but it can take just as much time to get over. And it certainly causes grief. Hope you get to number 7 soon !!

[thebraff]

By the way, I have heard that Holland are hiding all their sports flags and soccer shirts.

Something about an undie craze in Australia.


Rosieglen, I was able to get them to fit my bumperbar in Initial Mart.

:8}

[soundcollector65]

Cat I'm not sure that some of the things he is doing are in your best financial interests.

If he was co-signer of the lease, rather than take his name off......refuse.....because then he would be responsible for half the rent until you find someone to replace him.

Wouldn't half of the value of the things he is taking namely furniture, be yours as they were purchased during the term of your relationship.

Ring and get an interim cost on the utilities up to the date he leaves and make sure he pays for those too.

Someone else may be able to advise you further but I just get the feeling that you maybe getting short changed here.

[cynthecowgirl]

PS: I can't wait for Ok Day now coz not only do I get to wear a secret society pair of knickers I've also been given permission to eat chocolate and not put on weight.]:)

PPS: Ironically my ex's nic name was knickers so I'll feel like I'll be extra rubbing his face in it. :^O

PPPS: Thought I was good getting away without doing something vengerful to him but just remembered I did something wrong with his toothbrush.B-) Wonder if he ever noticed a weird taste.;-)