Hello all :-x
I am on cloud Damo :-x:-x
I went and saw him today. He was doing a promo with MIX and a large Sydney Club who are celebrating their 50th 'birthday'
Damien was the guest entertainer.
It was soooooooo good. โซโซโซโซโซ โฅโฅโฅโฅโฅ
MsJacks, I am pleased you have received good useful information from your solicitor.
Hang in there and things will come good in the end. *hug*
Kylie, holding you close to me. *Hug*
MsCat, how is your son going? Are you feeling any better? *hug*
Cuddly, I hope Lucy is getting a lot better *hig*
Heck, higs and hugs to everybody I am in such a good mood. ๐
Kylie what has hubby done this time? ๐ Lots of hugs :-x
AAAARRRGGGHHHH!!! *deep breath*
Things have been a little stressful, one step forward and two steps back!
Im trying for the sake of the kids (esp baby) to speak calm and act pleasant at all times, but this gives hubs the idea that all is well with us, and I am "over it"!
When I made the above post I was furious! Hubs had picked Mr 13 up from school and stopped at shops to pick up something for dinner, while there he asked sons opinion if he should "try to get back into the bed tonight?"
Son replied "oh dont upset mum when she's been at work all day, just stay on the lounge"
Hubs says very factually that "after our anniversary everything will be good and he will be back in the bed!"
Mr 13 has no clue what he meant, so that's how the convo with me came up, he (son) was asking me if we'd made special plans or anything? (NO we have NOT!)
*NOTE* He is pretty confident that expensive earrings is his ticket "back in"!?! ......... wtf?????
NOW.... since son & I were talking he mentions something that was agitating him about the same shopping trip...
As they walked along a young girl with a good body walked past them and son saw hubs gawk and swivel neck to watch her go.....
Son says "you're a perve"
Hubs says "yes I am!"
Sooooooo, how is a man who is supposedly shattered about his marriage ending so happy to perve on hot chicks?? Did he think he was being 'cool' in front of Mr 13?? Cos my son was not impressed, it upset him to think his mum was being disrespected like that, I told son not to be too upset and we had a good talk about how it's rude to perve/gawk at young women if you're married OR single, it's disrespectful to females FULL STOP!
It's been up & down ever since! I will try to pop in later tonight now that Im working out the ipad, but got to pack up and leave work now, pick up my angel girl and head home to.... who knows what!?!?!?!?
(((((((Kylie)))))))
Well done to Mr 13 for seeing the wrongness in the actions, and for having respect for you and other women.
Glad MK doesn't have diabetes, Cat :^O
Lucy is a lot better, her urine is still very concentrated, poor beastie had a very bad day on Saturday, constipation and throwing up, poor baby, I have never seen her like that.
Her appetite has NOT been affected, though. :^O
Higs and Hugs to all.
Braff, have you come down from your high yet? ๐
I was going to mutter about this and that, but after kylies post up there, all I can do is sit here with my jaw on the floor.
(((kylie)))
seriously,what kind of man behaves like that?? ๐ฎ
if its over kylie- and it does sound that way, he has got to go, and soon.
PS your son seems very mature and you must be very proud of him:-x
I know, his behaviour has gotten worse since the baby... but right now he thinks he's being sooooo great putting in loads of effort etc.
Everyday he seems to wake up with the attitude that THIS is the day where everything goes back to 'normal', he just cannot accept this even though he's had so much warning, and knowing how unhappy I have been.
He contradicts himself ALL the time, like with the perving on women, but telling me that he loves and adores only me forever and his heart is being ripped out etc etc
Then the other night he was playing with the baby telling her loudly that he "loves HER and just her forever" blah blah...(so we can all hear him)
BUT the next morning I wake to a letter saying how much he loves & adores the whole family.
I feel so manipulated when he writes/ emails & texts me these things, but then I remember these other things and I stay strong with my plans to end our marriage.
Thank god my son IS turning into a lovely young man, not like my husband but much like his dad who was a really beautiful man.
