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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[kyliecrv]

My Princess ♥

Something to make your heart smile!

[the_great_she_elephant]

My Princess ♥

Something to make your heart smile!

She is just adorable, Kylie - those HUGE eyes!

[jack*in*a*box]

Oh Freddie, please take care of yourself. I hope you feel a lot less snotty soon. Thinking of you and Mr. Freddie.

((Kylie))

I wanted to share something with you lovely people today that I heard at my Uncle's service.

It's called 'How you live your dash"

Simply put, there will be your birth date then a 'dash' then your passing date.

The 'dash' is the most important part. What you do with your dash, what type of person you become, not what you own but how rich you are in character. How much respect you showed, what you are all about and what people will say about you when it is your time.

♥♥♥

[cat_mioux]

Kylie I know with all my heart and soul you will come out of this difficult time in your life better than great. You know what you are doing. You know the potential of a wonderful happy life is not with your present husband.

Jacks I've heard of the dash story and I love it. What legacy do we leave when we die?

[buzzlightyearsgirlfriend]

The Dash – Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning..to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears, 1964-1994
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth..
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars..the house..the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard.
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what”s true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile..
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life”s actions to rehash..
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

[fiestas*girl]

Kylie, you mentioend that you feel your husband saw you as a good catch in that you were 'well off' or similar

None of my business but, did you protect your existing assets when you married him? or for want of a better phrase, did you get a pre nup?

I understand if you prefer not to answer

[kyliecrv]

Kylie, you mentioend that you feel your husband saw you as a good catch in that you were 'well off' or similar

None of my business but, did you protect your existing assets when you married him? or for want of a better phrase, did you get a pre nup?

I understand if you prefer not to answer

definately had him sign a per-nup before we got married.

this house being the main thing I need to protect, my kids will never be homeless!

the cash has been used for living/ holidays/ wedding/occasions etc i don't really care about that but I was adamant my house would always be secure for us no matter who came n went.

he wasn't happy about it, felt I should 'just trust'..... My instinct said otherwise..... But my family were also pushing for it, they need not have worried.

[kyliecrv]

*pre-nup* grrrrr to iPad! LoL

[fiestas*girl]

very wise move kylie, i wish more single women with assets were as astute

[thebraff]

Hello all  ~~~~~~ *waves*

Higs and hugs to all.

Wise decision Kylie.

Thanks Buzz for the Dash poem.  Very interesting to read.

Get well Freddie.