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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[tasfleur]

[cat_mioux]

Dya reckon Beau can spare one of his blankies? It's coming in to winter ya know ?:|

I asked Beau if he wanted to give nonads one of his blankies but Beau just snuffled then he did some more shredding of the sofa. And with all four paws too!

Meh

*shrugs*

:^O

[tania720_0]

Cat you didn't see a thing ...LOL

[drat60]

yeah guys I know in my heart I should stop , but I'm not going to anymore Im trying to promise, I know a break means I want you waiting but as I say nothing is official really, but tomorrow is going to be hard 😞

Cause I hate him so much 😞

Knowing he is with her 😞

Sorry to rant 😞

Its been a hard day again thats all. Yeah I have a lot of support, but sadly they are all so against him and it makes it all harder even though they helping me to get through this if that makes sense, not that I want them to say I am wrong of course but its the old saying :

I can say what I want about my husband or kids but dont anyone else say it 😞

[bpuppydog]

I asked Beau if he wanted to give nonads one of his blankies but Beau just snuffled then he did some more shredding of the sofa. And with all four paws too!

Meh

*shrugs*

:^O

You asked him verbally? Or, did you employ kitteh sign languange? Just wondering in case you mixed up the sign for 'give a blanket' with the sign for 'please scratch the sofa'. They're pretty similar, ya know.

Anyway, excellent outcome, regardless of miscommunication :^O

drat I'm thinking of you honey. (((drat)))

[dtrh3]

dear bpuppydog-
Is Happy Bunny allowed to come out to play?

dear drats,
Please vent as much as you need.I really feel for you. :-x

At this time,anything is better than you trying to communicate with this Mr.If you dont mind me suggesting that you spend time thinking about YOUR needs,about what YOU are thinking,about what YOU are feeling,you may be feel a little better.Focusing on Mr will not help you.It may even cause more harm as you try to second guess his next thought/or move.
I understand some of the stress you are naturally feeling is due to being betrayed.No one deserves to be treated as you have and are being treated.It is appalling.
If you able to manage to put your focus on yourself,you may be able to draw strength from the person you are-a person you respect,a person who would never let you down,someone you can rely on,someone you can build up.

you can do it you can do it you can do it
keep faith in yourself-I dont think anyone would mind if I said we-here-are all sending you strength and support :-x
take good care of yourself

[bpuppydog]

dt if you think I have any control over that psychotic bunny then I think you possibly misunderstand the nature of Happy Bunny :^O

[keeliaclare]

He says he wants a break? This means he wants his skank/s and you waiting in the wings so he has a place to fall if it all turns to shirt.

He is manipulating you ms drats. Cut him off. Don't feed his ego.

You will survive this drats. :-x

Completely, totally, absolutely agree:(

[dtrh3]

(whispers) bpuppydog-here,no,over here..behind the bushes, oh,sorry,that was your foot?shhhhh I SAID sorry,are you sure youre Ok?shhhh-seriously?I dont think I have any control over Happy Bunny-I just love to see him...dont tell him, promise me you wont.pleasssse. Ok?

[keeliaclare]

drat, I have no words for you really, other than believe in yourself and now is the time to do what is right for you, solicitor, whatever.


Enough already!

and I agree with dtrh3, a few years ago I had a girlfriend go through this.....thinking of what he had done, thinking of ways to get back at him, he was very very wealthy and hid a lot of his money, he'd been having an affair with his secretary (yes I know, how cliched) for over 10 years..... while she was having his babies and being the "good wife"......her rage and desire for revenge nearly consumed her.

And finally she just calmly went the legal route, she didn't get anything like she should have of course, because a lot was hidden, but she got some......and then she moved on.

And amazed him by using that money to build a fabulous house as an owner builder, and she bought investment properties.....and now feels good about herself..

Now is the time to just believe he will get what is coming, but look after yourself....see a solicitor asap.


(((hugs))) doesn't seem enough....but they are sincere♥