make sense cat.. specially the rescue part ..
hard one tho cause it's mother's/womans instinct to some degree
iykwm ..
its sorta what we do ..
how do we know when to and not to ??
would love to pass it on to my miss for when she get's older ! |
Hmmm good question flannie. I asked my teacher that too and she said you will feel it. If you feel your relationship is balanced and you are not giving because of an agenda based on fear or manipulation then it's good to give.
Rescuing is a whole nother story. How often have we 'rescued' someone only to have throw it back in our faces?
Looking back .. nonads was in a dark place when we met. He was unemployed and depressed. He romanced me and I fell for him. I rescued him, focussed all my energy on him because deep down I thought he'd love me for it and never leave me.
Freddie was helping me shop! X-(
