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[cat_mioux]

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[freddie*rooster]

Happy Christmas to the wonderful kind posters here, thankyou all for your kindness love and support  during my Brothers illness and passing - Your support during those months I will always remember

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[cynthecowgirl]

Well here we all are. Another year older and another year wiser.

Cat, when I first came into this thread I had so much empathy for the pain you were in. As I said at the time, I could almost palpate it. It has been a privilege to share this unwanted journey with you and with everyone else who has dared to bare their souls and lives in this thread along with you.

My Christmas wish for you is that you can now truly see and believe and know that you will be, and infact already are, ok.

We all will be. I hope anyone who ever continues to enter this thread gets that same message. Anyone who has ever been down the bottom of that deep dark barrel, hang in there. It does get better and one day, once again, you will be ok.

I don't always post, but I'm always lurking and catching up. I wish everyone good health and happiness. I've never met any of you in real life, but I have a great affection for you all.

Be you a believer or not, I wish you all the joys of Christmas.

Merry Christmas. Love cyn X

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Christmas (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) to everyone.

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[thebraff]

Hello again to everyone  ~~~~~ (<<<<they are waves by the way) ?:|

Higs and hugs to all in a double dose for Christmas.

It is wonderful to reflect on this thread and how it has evolved over the last 12 months.  What a strong person Ms Cat has become and what great friendships via cyberspace have happened.

I wore OK's today for Ava and her Mum. I love how when anyone is in need the OK's come out in support.  We don't know Ava or her Mum, but on Ms Cat's recommendation with them being part of Miss Kittys b/f family they became our focus of support too.  Just like you did for my friend recently.  She felt so uplifted by knowing that complete strangers were in her corner.  It is too difficult to get the total reaction across but amazing and she was so grateful to all of you.

To our MIA posters, we miss you and want your posts in here as soon as your computers are 'fixed'.

To the ones who have shared their struggles, even though they hadn't mentioned them before.  Thank you for coming forward and helping others who were reading and needed propping up.

To all those who put their hands out and held onto anyone that felt like they were drowning.  Picking people up when they fell, letting them know they were/are important.

So many posters have some very wise words.  Cyn, dtrh are two that come immediately to mind.  They are just 2 of an enormous number that contribute.

So much more I could say, but for now, regardless of what you believe or who you believe in, tomorrow is Christmas Day - peace and goodwill to all men.

Thank you to all of you for every bit of contribution you have made to this thread  :-x

some wise words often said in this thread

You can do it, you can do it , you can do it.

[kokomobua]

Guess what Ms. Mioux.  We can change your "you can do it, you can do it" to "YOU DUN IT" !!!

[sleeping.mermaid]

Merry Christmas everyone - I still remember the shock when all this started - I just felt ill and so sad - and see where you have been cat and now you are so strong and lucky 😉

[sleeping.mermaid]

didn't mean to be winking 😄

[cat_mioux]

Hi Amazing Wonderful Incredible Wise Compassionate Women!

Cyn you said I will look back in a years time and know that I survived and would be happy. I didn't see it at the time, I was in shock and heartbroken.

But you were right. Of course you were!

On the 23rd Dec this year I woke up at 7.30am with a start and realised it was exactly the day and time 12 months ago when the shirt hit the fan. That morning I came downstairs wondering why Mr Ex was on his laptop so early. I asked him if he loved me. That's when I got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you and I'm leaving you" speech.

When I started the original thread I received an email from another ebay member. They said he was having an affair and added a link to a forum or website. I deleted the email in disgust.

I don't know who you are but I want to thank you for trying to tell me the truth. You saw the signs. Maybe you have personally experienced infidelity an d you knew. I'm sorry I disregarded your email. You were trying to help me and looking back I appreciate your email.

It was about 10 days later I discovered he was having an affair.

I held on to this thread. I held on to your words of wisdom, your support, your efforts to make me laugh (and you did spectacularly!). You made me buy orange knickers!

You sent me wonderful gifts and cards and money. I can't express how much it all helped!

To those who have emailed me over the year telling me your stories of heartbreak, you are in my heart and I hope you have been able to gain support from the wonderful posts here.

On 23rd Dec at 7:30 am, this year, I walked out into the garden with a cup of tea, had a little cry then this wonderful feeling of peace enveloped me and I felt appreciation for my life and gratitude that I had made it with the help of my faith and the people (Real Life and Cyber) in my life.

So, here is a big thank you! I hope I can 'pay it forward'. but maybe the greatest gift I can give to this thread is hope for others. If I can make it, you can make it. Keep the faith. Make a conscious decision to heal and live the best life you possibly can. The purpose of life is to be happy. Make it so.

Merry Xmas Everyone :-x

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Oh Cat, your post made me cry, in a good way, you really have come so far and done so well, I am proud of you, and I am proud of the women, and possible men, who have come into this thread with support and care, for you and for others.

I especially felt it when I read,.....

had a little cry then this wonderful feeling of peace enveloped me and I felt appreciation for my life and gratitude that I had made it with the help of my faith and the people (Real Life and Cyber) in my life.

Yes... you have done it!

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Have a wonderful day, everyone.♥♥♥

[cat_mioux]

Cuddly :-x

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