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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[kyliecrv]

AAAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[the_great_she_elephant]

Ummm................ are you just a teensy bit put out about something, Kylie? I can hear you shouting all the way over here.:^O

Seriously, though,(((HUGS)))  I'm sorry if things have gone pear shaped - do you want to talk about it?♥

[kyliecrv]

Ummm................ are you just a teensy bit put out about something, Kylie? I can hear you shouting all the way over here.:^O

Seriously, though,(((HUGS)))  I'm sorry if things have gone pear shaped - do you want to talk about it?♥

oh thanks she-el, I had to phone my sis and vent, was so angry then it got late and I fell asleep, gosh I'm super tired today!!

im still p'd, but I'm also cranky with myself for taking the bait and losing my cool.

Alot more to come I think?! *sigh*

[my2cuddlycats_not]

(((((((Kylie)))))))

[cynthecowgirl]

Ahhhhh the old take the bait trick hey. We've all been caught out by that at some time or another when you end up screaming like a banshee and come out of it looking like a crazy bnitch.

Hardest lesson to learn. His issues are not your problem anymore so best to just IGNORE.

Ignore phone calls, ignore texts, ignore them. Just concentrate on yourself and make yourself happy. You're not responsible for anything to do with him anymore.

I found the best thing to do when someone is trying to bait you is to not answer calls, delete messages or forward them on to someone else to read for you. If there is anything you need to know regarding children then get the third party to pass it onto you, anything else, especially personal attacks or abuse, you just don't need to know. Make sure the third party knows that too and choose someone who can keep their mouth shut and not end up telling you what has been said, especially if it's nasty.

I charged up an old phone a few weeks back and found a msg from the ex that I read. Even though it was about 2 years old it still had the ability to be very cutting and hurtful after all this time and bought me down for days. Don't give someone that power over you anymore. IGNORE!

[cat_mioux]

Cuddly I hope kitty was just experiencing separation anxiety and it's nothing more. :-x  Keep us posted.

Kylie, cyn has some great advice there. Ignore ignore ignore and set boundaries in place as cyn mentioned. He will continue to bait you, just to get your attention. The best thing I ever did was block Mr Ex's emails and I refused to answer calls to my mobile that didn't have a name attached to them because Mr Ex would use different mobiles to try to contact me. He kept it up for well over a year after we broke up.

Use a third party to relay information about Samantha. And I HOPE he is no longer having access to your home.

Higs and hugs to everyone!

[my2cuddlycats_not]

thanks cat, she seems to be ok now, eating well, annoying other cat lol.

Does look like she was pining. She always misses me, But not been like this before.

Higs and hugs. 

[cat_mioux]

Cuddly ♥  If kitty is eating fine and annoying the other cat then she sounds fine.

I also have a kitty that has separation anxiety. I bought Feliway and plugged that in when I went o/s for a month.

[my2cuddlycats_not]

he Vet gave himself 3 cat shaped hangers she sprayed with feliway, he hung them in the lounge, near feed bowls and bedroom.

She is trying to make up for lost time..... feed me feed me feed me feed me lol

[thebraff]

Hello everyone  0/    ~~~~~

Oh Kylie  *hugs* to you.   I must have sensed something because this morning when I was getting dressed I pulled out the OK's and felt that I 'needed' to wear them today.

I don't normally wear them on ordinary days.

B3lla, that's good that your new dog is making himself at home and fitting right in.

Cuddly, sounds like your cat is back to normal.

MsCat, so happy that it all seemed to go well for Thai and now the others are getting back into routine.

Cyn, wise advice given and how was your time in Sydney??  Didi you enjoy your
Bridge Climb?

Hi She_Ele  ~~~~

I hope everyone had a good Mothers Day.