on 26-06-2013 06:29 AM
16-11-2014 01:42 AM - edited 16-11-2014 01:43 AM
hi joono ..thankyou ...i think i am going along ok then just freeze for hours ..its horrible and hard to explain .dil and i have to give statements to the police on monday for the coroner ...thats been playing on my mind a bit today !
bugger that flashie couldnt hear him ,we could hear ok ,we where 2 rows in front of the first woman that got up ..pita ..he told us not to give out any details ,she got up said her name ,were she used to live ,that her gparent's had died and they raised her ...blah blah !
john goes didnt you listen .you just told me all about yourself ..a few of the ones that were read did this
..he got annoyed lol..so did we !!
they stuffed around so he couldnt move on ..
we did get alot comfort from his words tho !
on 16-11-2014 01:56 AM
How annoying. He has told people that it doesn't help him to give details like that. I'm not sure I believe in his ability but it would be nice and it is a real comfort.
The one thing that he always says is that the person that has passed is fine and now we have to be too.
Monday is going to be tough. How is your daughter in law? Her beautiful daughters will keep her going, and you too.
on 16-11-2014 02:11 AM
dil is struggling ..poor darling ...he is the only person she has ever loved.. she does open up with me .always has done ..
not so with others ..i am not quite as strong for her this time ...trying tho
bub has appointement on thursday ..with the neurologist ..hope we get some more answers ..then the 2 of us might get away on our own ..just for a night ..so we can chat
without having to do other stuff !
on 16-11-2014 08:06 AM
Annie you are one of the strongest women I know, always thinking of others.
You will have days like that, I hope you can get some sleep.XXXX ((((())))
on 16-11-2014 09:08 AM
Annie....you do not have to be strong for her....................you would be the two people wh loved and knew him best...........that is enough for now.
on 16-11-2014 12:02 PM
Morning all.
Thinking of you Annie as always. xx Monday will be difficult for you and dil. I am sure the police will make it as easy as possible for you and dil. Your idea for some time away with dil sounds like a good thing. You are both being strong for others, an opportunity to just let it all out with each other.
Hope there will be some answers for you and dil finally after bub's appointment on thursday.
on 17-11-2014 02:10 PM
Raining again today, strong wind expected tonight.
I have energy today and have cleaned out the Garage and shifted things around.
I have dried that darn Cat off five times, thats it !!
Annie hope the Babes appiontment went ok, thinking of you XXXXXXXXXXX
on 19-11-2014 10:10 AM
GOOD MORNING .......
I haven't been in here for a while (guilty looking) but I do read this thread each day to keep up.
Thinking of you all. So much happening today with a little flock of quilting ladies coming fully armed with cakes and salads .. what's the bet we don't actually get much done, but fun to be had, it's been a long long year!
Flannie, sweet lady, thinking of you every day as you and the family work through these very difficult days ...
Later xxx
on 19-11-2014 05:15 PM
Afternoon.
Don't be a stranger Tas. I foresee more talking than quilting today. That is half the fun though isn't it?
Had a do nothing sort of day today. Cleaned out a drawer or two and threw rubbish away. Some laundry and that is about it.
Thinking of you Annie. xx
19-11-2014 08:01 PM - edited 19-11-2014 08:02 PM
evening all ..
miss m's appointment is tomorrow ..
monday wasnt great ..but we did it..
other then that ..one day at a time !
thanks for your kind words everyone xxx
heaps of laundry here to katy ...omg ..mr d had a blow out today , in his swing !!!
had to pull it apart to clean it lol...
he had just had a bath ....
had to have another one it was that bad ..
typical man !!
full of it ..rofl !