Has anyone had breast implants done in Adelaide?

[jasonindustries96]

Hi, my 22 yr old daughter is looking at getting implants done.  Sadly she has never developed hardly at all.  I dont blame her looking into this but concerned if its safe etc.  She is a uni student to cant afford too much.  Can anyone tell me what dr they had and how much it cost?

[polksaladallie]

It doesn't matter a fig what peers or society think.

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@tcmsecretuseid wrote:

Muppet, I am supportive of many of the things you stated. I just thought it was funny that the father was asking for advice. Although maybe jason is not the author of the original post. 

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I am embarrased that I assumed it was a mother and impressed that a father and daughter share such a bond that they can discuss it with each other.

Most parents would think that their children are perfect just the way they are, so I imagine it would be hard on them to know that their child views themselves as imperfect.

They would question things such as where they went wrong and comments as above about inefficient nurturing are potentially hurtful.

Here we have a parent attempting to support their child as they struggle to realise their identity and place in the world. I can only see positives in that. I think that makes a great parent.

[tcmsecretuseid]

Only one time in my entire life did a man try to make me feel bad about my size. I was leaving a concert, and a very drunk man was banging on my car, saying that I really needed a bigger (car) rack. After several minutes, I finally put my window down, and said that he didn't have to worry about the size of my rack, since he had such a small package. He turned bright red. Everybody laughed,  and I went off on my merry way. 

Sometimes the only way to shut up a crude person, is to be crude right back. 

[tcmsecretuseid]

I think the daughter is just trying to get her parent to pay for the implants. 

A supportive parent is good. 

There are risks, and problems that go along with this proceedure. A great parent would go through all of the pros and cons with their child. 

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@polksaladallie wrote:

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@fiestas*girl wrote:

as a veteran of 2 boobs jobs, the first being for the very reasons in the op and at very similar age, and the second as a result of a boatng accident some 2decades later

i know exactly  how your daughter would be feeling, no psychologist is ever going to help that.....neither is the well ntentioned suggestions and words of advice from  those that have a half decent rack

Had 2 babies sucessfully breast fed also

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You have no knowledge of the body shape of posters here, or what they know about the subject.  (I refuse to use a crude description).  They have every right to voice their opinions.

Perhaps a psychologist can't help, after all, one's self esteem develops from birth from the love and encouragement of both parents.

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I am sorry, but your post has made me angry.

You have no knowledge of this girls background and yet you are comfortable casting aspersions that she has reached this point in her life due to some inefficiency of the parents.

You condemn others because they don't know specifics about other posters, yet you voice your hostile opinions without knowing specifics of this situation.

Fiesta voiced her opinion (and hers is as worthy of yours) and qualified her experience.

[tcmsecretuseid]

Muppet, I do think fiesta was dismissing some of the advice by others(including mine), thinking that none of us know what its like to be small. That statement was not correct. 

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@tcmsecretuseid wrote:

A supportive parent is good. 

There are risks, and problems that go along with this proceedure. A great parent would go through all of the pros and cons with their child. 

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I agree. I am under the impression that this is what this parent is trying to do.

There are risks with just about everything TCM, a person needs to determine if the benefits outweigh the negatives.

[polksaladallie]

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@muppet_detector wrote:

I am sorry, but your post has made me angry.

You have no knowledge of this girls background and yet you are comfortable casting aspersions that she has reached this point in her life due to some inefficiency of the parents.

You condemn others because they don't know specifics about other posters, yet you voice your hostile opinions without knowing specifics of this situation.

Fiesta voiced her opinion (and hers is as worthy of yours) and qualified her experience.

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I did not mention any inefficiency of the parents.  I stated a fact that one's self esteem begins at birth.

I did not "cast aspersions".  I did not voice "hostile opinions".   I did not "condemn" anyone. 

Perhaps I know more then you think?

If the parents have a good relationship with this woman, hopefully they will steer her away from that particular path.

[polksaladallie]

Apart from any other aspects, any surgery which requires general anaesthetic is dangerous, and should be used only if absolutely necessary.

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@tcmsecretuseid wrote:

Muppet, I do think fiesta was dismissing some of the advice by others(including mine), thinking that none of us know what its like to be small. That statement was not correct. 

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My point was that they didn't know the situation of this girl and her parents, yet they were comfortable with making potentially hurtful comments about a parents' skills all the time whilst condemning another poster for their lack of knowledge about the specifics of others.