Have you ever "accidentally" ended up in a relationship?

[aspie*mum]

I had a horrifyingly awful breakup with my fiance in August last year.  By September I had moved cities, got a new job, got my child into a new school and settled back into my life.  I also went out with my girlfriends one night (to drown my sorrows) and met an extremely good looking Kiwi who I ended up having a passionate night with (which was good for my self esteem).  

I never intended to see him again but we spent the next 2 months sending text messages which consisted of little more than "Bootie call?" and "when / where?".  I was not looking for a boyfriend (in fact made it very clear I wasn't!) and this worked extremely well.

HOWEVER, by November we'd gone to the movies together a few times.  Gone to the beach a couple of times.  By December he'd met some of my friends and I'd met his.  By January we went on a holiday together for 4 days (I should have listened to my wise girlfriend who stated "bootie calls don't go on holidays together" and (horror OH horror) he's started introducing me as his girlfriend.

So, I have accidentally gotten myself a boyfriend.  And the timing is so bad.  I've basically ended up jumping from one relationship to another without having any "me" time in between!

A lovely boyfriend.  A great looking boyfriend.  But a thoroughly unsuitable flirty tarty boyfriend.  

And I didn't want a boyfriend.

But, I have one and he's so lovely to me that I don't really want to get rid of him.

[lionrose.7]

Nic (((())))

[primaryaim]

Lion ((()))

[kyliecrv]

I had a 1 night stand about 18 months after my husband died, spent the last 7 years in an on again off again relationship where I was manipulated regularly by a jealous guy who I kept hoping would eventually come good!?

I put up with this behaviour, I know it was wrong, I should've cut ties years ago, once he started mistreating my 2 kids..... That was the line in the sand..... Unfortunately I was pregnant during this realisation, and when his child was born and he started treating me worse than ever, I knew this time was IT,

something happened when I turned 40, (besides him showing little interest in my milestone bday)......  Light switch turned on and I finally got a backbone and kicked him out!

it took 3months of him on the lounge before he would leave my house, and because of our child (my precious angel) I have to deal with him. He is worse than ever, using the baby to get his way, accuses me of all sorts of things, gets angry if I go to the gym or to the shops or for coffee while he is at my house visiting his daughter.

i wish he'd meet someone else to latch onto so he can have another focus.

it is very heart wrenching to regret a relationship that gave you such a wonderful gift! 😕

[lionrose.7]

Thank you prim but that was for nic not you.

[lionrose.7]

Kylie a least you know you did the right thing and I am sure it has made you a stronger person.

[lionrose.7]

Think you have that wrong prim, Nic and I understand.

someone else may bite for you :^O

[just_me_karen]

And not surprised about others :^O

[Anonymous]

ROFL!

[*pepe]

looks like a few have synchronised their cycles, lots of pms in the air.

[everything*that*i*ever*wanted]

looks like a few have synchronised their cycles, lots of pms in the air.

Damn, we need a like button.