on 09-07-2014 07:21 PM
Love this article.
Big girls sets a goal to wear a bikini next summer. Everyone assumes she is planning to lose weight. Nah - the goal is simply to...WEAR. A. BIKINI.
Personally I like seeing big girls in bikinis. I hate it when they cover up with shorts and nonsense like that.
Good on her!
An extract:
The reason these people do not want to see a fat body in a bikini is because traditionally, that garment is something a woman earns by proving herself attractive enough to exist. If fat women begin wearing them without shame or fear, what's next? Will they have self-esteem? Will they demand respect? Then what will keep them in their proper place? How would conventionally attractive people judge them?
on 10-07-2014 04:53 PM
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:
@icyfroth wrote:That thread wasn't so long ago, she-el. I thought elephants had a long memory?
Only for things that are important, Icy. Could you quote verbatim from a thread that died a week ago and in which you had never even participated.? I'm really impressed.
It was a pretty awesome piece of lateral thinking too, as it wasn't even Buzz who made that comment in the Undies thread.
No but if I remembered it from a thread not so long ago I could certainly search for it and C&P the sentence in question as a verbatim quote.
on 10-07-2014 05:31 PM
on 10-07-2014 07:06 PM
Ah, LT as usualy your friendly comments warm the cockles of my heart. And I bet you'd look gorgeous in a bikini.
on 10-07-2014 07:09 PM
ANYWAY.
If only all women could be as comfortable in their bodies as the women who wote the article.
on 10-07-2014 07:15 PM
...she actually does Ele. have seen pics 😛 she also has youth on her side. (still, Im forever 28, luvved that year, lol)
on 10-07-2014 07:18 PM - last edited on 10-07-2014 07:58 PM by gewens
😄
on 10-07-2014 07:20 PM
@just*duff wrote:...she actually does Ele. have seen pics 😛 she also has youth on her side. (still, Im forever 28, luvved that year, lol)
Well, there u go then - maybe I'm psychic as well as having a long memory. I can even remember being 28 ............... just.
on 10-07-2014 07:21 PM
seems like a lifetime ago for me. so much has happened since then.
on 10-07-2014 07:29 PM
it's still all about sun protection for me.
on 10-07-2014 07:35 PM
Remember Gidget's friend, Larue, she wore a full length kaftan with enormous hat for sun protection.
That about sum's up my wardrobe at the waterside.
DEB