If you could have your past relationship/marriage again knowing the outcome..........

[the_bob_delusion]

Would you still do it?

[lyndal1838]

Yes, there were a lot of good times as well as the bad times

[azureline**]

Yes, the only thing I wouldn't do is give in to family pressure and have the wedding. Living in sin was enough. 🙂

[bluecat*dancing]

Except for having my kids, a definite "NO!".

[*crikey*mate*]

Are the conditions underwhich these relationships occurred the same?

ie, am I 18 or 20 again, or do you mean that same relationship in my life as it is now?

[lloydslights]

Yes, they were all learning curves, some with more curves than expected. 

You have started a couple of threads,   I think, about relationships.  Are you going through a questioning "journey" to justify your own decisions of the past?

DEB

[katymatey*]

Yes of course. I probably would wish not to be quite so young though.

[sookie-snackhouse]

Hmmm I.ve thought about this at length before today & i could go either way on that.

He did build me a lot o great things,he was nice to look at,we had a lot of fun adult times & that's about it.Poor darl was a Narcissist/Sociopath so was 6yrs of rollercoaster ride.

If i had to do it over,i probably would have put laxatives in his food before he went fishing or sneaking off to one of his many flings.Funny cos he often suspected that i was going to.Wanted me to taste his food before he ate it ohh just remembering that was a good chuckle.

He also liked me to prune his bushy eyebrows,he liked to look perty for the ladies.If i was feeling spiteful or mischievous or bored,i would make them very arched&feminine.he never saw til he was at work the next day& used to ring saying "what did you do to me? i look surprised!"

Maybe i would do it again just for giggles 

[*crikey*mate*]

To revisit those past relationships (presuming you don't mean those of a platonic nature) would mean that I never got lucky enough to find the most perfect partner in the world (for me), or that we were no longer together, so no, I wouldn't want to revisit them.

There were good times and great memories, but they are over for a reason, and I never want to have to give up what i have now to go back.

[purple_haize]

No not the ex husband, but my first boyfriend, yes.