Jammed finger in the door - likely to be broken?

aspie*mum
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My almost 7 year old daughter manager to jam her finger in her bedroom door (whilst I was washing the dog).  Upon hearing hysterical screaming, I turned off the shower, locked the dog in the laundry shower room and went to find L.  (took all of 10 seconds).


 


She'd jammed her finger, and it was bleeding AND the fingernail was already black.  I am a fully qualified first aider so I gave her appropriate first aid and some ibuprofen.  She's not the first or last person to have had a jammed finger.


 


BUT it's so swollen and sore.  And I know I am an over protective mother. 



BUT I'm thinking it might be worth getting xrayed?  (Hard to find a clinic with an xray tech on site on late Sunday afternoon and I'm certainly not going to go to emergency at the hospital for a suspected fractured finger - it's not an emergency).  I would usually give it until morning (because I know I overreact) but L is going away interstate with my parents for a week tomorrow, so it's not the best day to get an xray.


 


😞  So I guess, chances it's fractured would be pretty low?  Leaving an xray until tomorrow morning wont kill her as they wouldn't do anything different to what I have done with the finger, but I feel bad.  I want to help her.


 


And I've still got to finish washing the stinking dog, who is at this point, locked outside all wet but not shampooed or rinsed (It is warm or he'd be inside).

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Aspie*mum,


 


My aspie son did that when he was 7 too.  It happenned right outsied a doctors surgery and my husband took him straight in there.  They administered pretty much the same care that you have done.  It wasn't broken, but his fingernail dropped off at school a few weeks later and he was beside himself in panic.  He thought it was going to be like it permanently.


 


So make sure you explain to your daughter that it might fall off after a few weeks, that it won't hurt when it falls off.  But also explain that a new one will grow back.


 


 


 


 


 

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I have to wiz

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Twinks, I don't have a clue what you're talking about ?:|


 


I don't like the way society applies labels to people with disorders. It's dehumanising. Thats my opinion. I'm not telling her to change her id. I'm just saying I don't like it. She doesn't like our intelligence quotient, I don't like her id, big deal.


As to your breasts, scarred or otherwise I have NEVER said anything about them. Why would I? why would they even be up for discussion??


 


 

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*pepe
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don't worry about it pimpy, you most certainly did no such thing.

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yet you don't find it offensive to have a dig at my scared breast? sigh......far more offensive id's around that the op's



 


ooooo, big accusations there. Any evidence of it. Either You're going to look like a fool or pimpy is. 

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i don't believe pimpy would do that at all.


you can believe what you like...it happened. mrsworm was in on it too.... 😞

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It happened ain't proof. What exactly did she say?

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I am no fool.....thd thread is gone. pimpy cont continued her silly comments but mrsworn left after my comment

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It happened ain't proof. What exactly did she say?



 


yes what exactly did I say ????


 


 

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*pepe
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you can believe what you like...it happened. mrsworm was in on it too.... 😞



 


i saw what you are talking about and they did not make fun of your breast.


 


they were bantering back and forth about tattoos, mrs wormwood said something about you having one under your breast.


you then said no it wasn't tatts it was scars.


 


really poor form on your part to try to turn it into something it definitely wasn't

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