on 21-03-2023 12:38 PM
We all, at one time or another, have pretended to be a rock star, singing and dancing along to our favorite song. Most of us have done this in the privacy of our own room when we were kids and as adults, in the privacy of our homes. Me? I love to do that when I drive! I turn on the radio, find a song that I can sing along too and pretty soon my arms are in the air and I am moving along to the rhythm. Most of the time, I do this on my way to work.
Yes, that is true. I will be in my nice work clothes, jamming while driving or stopped at a traffic light. I get weird looks from some people and others laugh. Personally, I love to get lost in the rhythm of a song which leads me to share with you the importance of being silly!
The definition for the word silly, according to the dictionary is: stupid, foolish and nonsensical. I know many people do not want to look foolish. So they walk around all serious, which in all honesty, is foolish!
No one is perfect, I repeat: no one is perfect. I don't care how educated, how thin, how beautiful, how simple, how frugal, how rich, and so on… No one is perfect! So why pretend to be something you are not?
Life is so short… You never know when this beautiful journey will be over, so why waste a single second on being so full of rigidity? Here is a quote by Souza, that I think says it all and is a great recipe for life:
“Dance as though no one is watching you,
Love as though you have never been hurt before,
Sing as though no one can hear you,
Live as though heaven is on earth.“
When we were kids, we had no idea of what limitations were and we had no care in the world so we could do things without worrying about how we appeared to others. However, as we grew up, we lost that childlike innocence.
So don't lose the child that still lives within you. The next time you feel down, go turn on your favorite song, and sing and dance along like there is no tomorrow. Or watch something that makes you laugh. Laughter is the best medicine to whatever ails you and nothing is better than laughing so hard that your tummy hurts. Trust me, you will feel a whole lot better, and who doesn't want to feel good?
on 22-08-2023 04:06 PM
I hope you are OK, celestialinter0. I enjoyed your posts, but I haven't seen you here for months.
on 22-08-2023 04:11 PM
Probably because she has been logged out since April.
on 22-08-2023 04:14 PM
LOL, it doesn't take much to understand she didn't come back or log in.
on 22-08-2023 04:30 PM
LOL - Schule ist zu ende.
on 22-08-2023 04:35 PM
Nicht fuer mich, gnaedige Frau.
on 22-08-2023 04:45 PM
@arctoph_49 wrote:Nicht fuer mich,
gnaedigegnadige, Frau.
22-08-2023 04:51 PM - edited 22-08-2023 04:54 PM
It is actually gnädige Frau (a with dieresis), usually transcribed ae.
Alternatively, you can just write the “ä” as “ae”, the “ö” as “oe” and the “ü” as “ue”.
(from https://www.berlitz.com/blog/german-umlaut-meaning-letters)
on 22-08-2023 05:06 PM
Hi everyone,
Since this thread has gotten a bit off-topic, please bring the discussion back to subject established in the original post... or just let it drop.
Thank you.
on 22-08-2023 05:20 PM
As per opening post… I try to avoid being confined by unrealistic expectations of how one should be. That doesn’t mean that I ignore or flout all unwritten rules; it does mean that I don’t want a fear of looking foolish to prevent me from being myself.
One person’s perception may be of folly; to the person concerned, it may be natural or an expression of freedom.
Caveat: no drugs or risk-courting behaviour. That’s not just foolish, it’s bone-deep stupid and a sign of immature brain function.
on 23-08-2023 01:47 AM
Thank you! I don't even know how "Schule ist zu Ende" ("School is over") got into the conversation.