Loneliness

[123-cavaliers]

Hi all. It took me ages to get the courage to write this. I recently moved to Victoria, know no one, and am extremely lonely. I am a STRAIGHT married woman, but am at the stage where it is a marriage in name only. I am a young at heart 62 year old, look after myself, love a laugh (and a cry if needed LOL). I just adore my 3 little dogs, who are my best friends and the loves of my life. I love shopping, trash and treasure markets, my computer (which I'd be lost without LOL), cooking, music, etc.etc. I'd love to meet other women to have a coffee and "yak" with, go shopping with etc. etc. I am very down to earth and non judgemental...I have had tough times in my life and judge no one. Soooo...if there's anyone out there, I'd love to hear from you. Thank you for reading my ad, have a nice day and take care.

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

123, good for you for reaching out!

If you are interested in art and craft, have you considered the Shepparton Art Gallery? They have a great collection of ceramics, and they have volunteer guides from the community- maybe a good way of meeting people?

Also, theres a Summer Film Festival this Saturday, could be fun...check out the Councils website, theres also a Sheppartons Friends of the Library group you could consider joining..though the library is having some work done before Christmas and is temporarily closed..

Hope these options may interest you..its not easy moving to a new place, but it can be exciting...

[serendipityricho]

Hi Cavaliers--good you had the courage to post.

Hope some posters from the Shepparton area read this thread.

Try taking a dog for a walk in a local park -the same time as others.

Think i know what breed they are ,..lol.............................Richo.

[softail-joanie]

Hi Cavaliers. like how you made clear in no uncertain terms that your stright, lol. If you were near Portsmouth Ohio, I'd kick it with ya, maybe in a library, the clubhouse (a place nearby folks hang out), or down on the river (York Park) ect.. If it were summertime, maybe hit the flea market on thursdays, and yard sales, or a two hour drive to Columbus to run down some thrift stores and visit a couple friends I have up there. I don't see hiking or bicycling, so i guess that would be out. I'm kind of big on exploring the hills and woods, trails and such, but not this time of the year,, burrrrr

I'm posting from my dad's garage right now, and can tell you that I'd like for these next few cold months to be over with, or to get into an apartment with heat, eather or, would work.

Thanks for posting, don't be a stranger, be safe and take care.

[k0llectable5]

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@123-cavaliers wrote:

Thanks for that...will do (LOL)...I am in Shepparton

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Oh I used to live near Seymour which is only about an hour or so away.  I'm in central Gippsland now so thats probably a 4 hour drive from Shep, seems a little excessive just to have a coffee lol 

But yeah good on you for breaking the ice, there are some great personalities posting on these boards, there is rarely a dull moment and the topics are wide and varied.  

[raptor_rebooted]

cavaliers - you have the option to send and receive

private messages via this forum.

if someone could explain  to cavaliers how it

is done, it would be great

[jean2579]

How can you be lonely cavs. You have us. Admittedly we all have some issues, but hey that is part of the fun. Don't be a stranger.

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

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@*julia*2010 wrote:

cavaliers - you have the option to send and receive

private messages via this forum.

if someone could explain  to cavaliers how it

is done, it would be great

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'cavaliers'- or is it '123'?

you can send a private message by signing in, clicking on 'messages' on the left of your ID, next to 'notifications'

then click on 'compose new message' and send a message to the ID you choose.

hope thats clear

[poddster]

On Friendship
Kahlil Gibran

Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.


When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the "nay" in your own mind, nor do you withhold the "ay."
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.


And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

[channys_mum]

We are a varied lot mostly nice. There are the odd one or two who like to stir the pot, just ignore them.

Keep posting, have fun and it won't take you long to figure out who is genuine and who is not.

[cmcoins2000]

Welcome to the 'boards' Cav.

Will be good to chat while sipping - can't make coffee am in NSW.

Loneliness is an interesting state - one can be lonely in a crowd.

Do some good things for yourself - spoil yourself instead of the OH.

Read Richo - have no idea of the breed of dogs - his crystal ball working better than mine.

Names - girls or boys or both.????

Cheers