today i got a letter from my Nan (Mums Mum).
It has had me bawling while ive been reading it.
I'd like to share some of it with you all
It's so sad about our Val, and now she is not looking at us anymore.
Our Mandy gets no response either. It must be worse for you, at least we can see her. Now you are talking to a silent phone every week. Your dad shouldnt expect you to keep doing those calls.
I wonder how she is with your dad. I dont see him as when im with Val, he goes to play bowls. I remember a time when we couldnt get him to go anywhere. He would say he couldnt leave her, not for anything.
She will soon be in her 4th year after April. It is awful to see her like this. She was such a busy person, never stopped, so full of life. Im sure she would not want to be like this.
I remember our Jackie saying she should of been left to die and we all pounced on her, me too. We told ourselves she was alive and breathing and would get better. Never thinking there would be no change in near 4 years.
We didnt get that miracle we all prayed for.