My brother and Self Defense

[herbto3]

My mum and I dont know what to do anymore. We are in the NT. Several weeks ago my brother defended himself against the full on intoxicated estranged spouse as she wanted him to go and buy drugs. He said no and she attacked him twice. He defended himself but since then he has found himself on dvo charges brought on by the cops. 

I feel for my brother as he is a good person and dad but no one is listening to him. The cops wont take away the charges as they see it as domestic volence. They dont see it as self defense. The x sister in law wants the charges dropped but the cops wont drop them. My mum is as she puts it hitting her head against a brick wall trying to get someone to listen to her about this as my brother is an abused husband the victim. Mum says it is not the normal run of the mill case as he is a bloke not a lady. Only ladies get abused not husbands. My brother has stood by his family as his x is a druggy and cant look after the 5 kids properly. He has been their protector.

What I want to do is help my brother and his kids but I dont know how to do it..I dont know who to get mum or brother to talk to. I dont want my brother to kill himself as this is what my mum has been thinking he might do. My brother and mum need help.

Is there anyone out there who could tell me what to say to my brother to help him please? And my mum? Can someone please please help me.... 

[freddie*rooster]

Hi green p u s s y I have a few I can give you, oops no I deleted them sorry.

I've been following the Baden-Clay case on another forum, one where you don't get treated like a child.

[bluecat*dancing]

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@2106greencat wrote:

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@siggie-reported-by-alarmists wrote:

There

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Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

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[bluecat*dancing]

My missing answer was "I am who I am"

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

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@2106greencat wrote:

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@siggie-reported-by-alarmists wrote:

There

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Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

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?.... what are you quoting.....

[the*scarlet*pimpernel]

Hello Miss Freddie, I wondered where you got to.

Unless someone owns up, or accidently outs themself, it's impossible to be certain of who is behind a Zero id.

[bluecat*dancing]

I tried to use the quote function and that is what I ended up with.

[bluecat*dancing]

I was trying to quote this. lol

Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

You cut me off..... what was I saying....lol.

[siggie-reported-by-alarmists]

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@bluecat*dancing wrote:

I was trying to quote this. lol

Surely no one in their right mind actually beleives, without doubt or lack of conviction, that someone on an internet site is  exactly who they say they are, really???

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So, everyone on internet sites are lying?.....

[icyfroth]

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@siggie-reported-by-alarmists wrote:

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@icyfroth wrote:

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@2106greencat wrote:

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@imastawka wrote:

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@2106greencat wrote:

I might type fast, but my brain is slow, LOL

I can not figure how posts from one thread got quoted here, and why Icy is in the poo ATM - am I just really slow or is there some inner hidden message I am missing ?

Edited to say - don't worry about it, think I would rather stay in the dark and carry on happily in my ignorance.

*waves to Icy*

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  I just got here and my brain is about to explode!

 We can sit together over here gc>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>     

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I am so with you stawka.........I gets scared when all the peoples are fightin' LOL

But I gotta say I do love a good brawl...........

although I can't imagine Icy having to start a whole new id, surely she is like the rest of us oldies and has 3 or 4 to choose from that no-one else has a clue about ??

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I'd like siggie to post proof as to her accusation.  If this is a grudge thing, there is no way she can win.

I have my own suspicions as to her everday ID for CS. It would explain why she likes to go after me at every opportunity.

Of course I would never post any accusations without proof.

But she's going by the old adage that mud sticks.

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You've been caught out. 

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