on 17-04-2013 11:17 AM
People who have kids think they are so hard done by, But did they really think before they had them that life wouldn't change. Obviously Not!. All i ever i hear is people constant complaining about how they can't afford or can't go to do whatever it is that they want to do , It comes down to consideration,budgeting and management, If you really cared about this you would have worked your way around to some form of affordability, if you choose to be a parent without talking into this accountability i don't feel sorry for you. I feel sorry for the children that your supposed to be responsible for and the things that they are missing out on.
People often say that the children are loved, well they might be loved but it's still not good enough. They need and require a lot more from a parent other then just ''love''
Statement' I'm not saying children have to be spoiled but at least do the right thing by them as a parent and provide the decent things that they require, To many kids miss out on the good things in childhood because their parents are to selfish to consider the impact that they will be causing on the child during the child's childhood.
on 17-04-2013 11:42 AM
What do you consider important?
on 17-04-2013 11:45 AM
i don't feel hard done by.
I feel lucky and blessed to have my kids.
on 17-04-2013 11:50 AM
Is it only people who don't have kids should talk about their financial situation ?
would they be seen as complaining as if they did ?
on 17-04-2013 11:53 AM
HUH?????????????
I have a lovely boy child ... I love him dearly and he loves me back.
I'm proud that I've helped him with his grammar and spelling among other things 🙂
on 17-04-2013 11:56 AM
Are you not the OP whose kids have to follow are strict regime
which I am sure you are then what kind of a life do they have , a cruel one .
you need to practice what you preach.
on 17-04-2013 12:01 PM
Who thinks they are so hard done by?
Just out of curiosity, do you agree with a woman's right to choose abortion?
on 17-04-2013 12:02 PM
Define "missing out" please?
I would be interested in reading the OP's interpretation of that.
on 17-04-2013 12:06 PM
Are you not the OP whose kids have to follow are strict regime
which I am sure you are then what kind of a life do they have , a cruel one .
you need to practice what you preach.
From memory this is the family that has the strict regime........
on 17-04-2013 12:10 PM
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