Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

 

Today children are exposed to things that 20 years ago were unheard of. As time creeps on we see more and more things that challenge belief. In film and on television, extremely violent imagery is such an accepted and major part of entertainment that some cannot enjoy a film or program unless it is violent.

 

In what passes for music, the lyrics are more explicit and sexually laden than they ever were. A great deal of the video clips that appear on television would be considered pornography once upon a time. Other forms of music such as some rap have lyrics about killing people, guns and putting down women in the worst possible way.

 

Something that would be laughed off as impossible years ago, children before they can even walk properly are now exposed to adult entertainers such as drag queens as part of some supposed education or enlightenment program. Some of these drag queens have names of male and female genitalia. Some have names that relate to sexual scents and arousal. Some even have gone as far as doing stripping routines, twerking, teaching twerking, and  other blatant sexually suggestive behaviour. They are even reading childrens stories that are an alternative to the male and female relationships or the birth genders..

 

Children are playing violent video games which are much more graphic and interactive than what they were in the past. Many are not interested in a video game unless it is violent. They can play for hours and hours on these games, either connected to their own source or a source that is online. Some of the games are so violent that some adults are sickened to the degree that they refuse to even talk about it. Others that do find it almost impossible to comprehend.

 

* Where should the boundaries be set or where should they have been set?

* What effect is this having on children today?

* How will things be in ten or twenty years time?

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

If you were only talking about gansta rap why did you say:  The power to create illusion is in film and media. It should never be underestimated!

 

If audiences can distinguish between reality and illusion while watching a film, I'm pretty sure they can do the same while listening to music.


Clearly our children are doomed she-ele, especially the children of the working class and single mother families - such a sad state of affairs, I for one have lost the will to go on........

 

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

Caught my DD cracking her knuckles last night so gave her a ' rap '. 😂

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Have you contacted anyone outside of these boards to complain about gangsta rap?

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4channel wrote: Aha, you may have to get out a mingle a bit. There's a lot out there that many people have no idea of.

I have 5 children, 16 grandchildren (including steppies) and  and 14 great grandchildren (also including steppies). So I think  I am  pretty well qualified  to make observations on the subject of kids and their music preferences. 

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That She-el - comes pretty close to a Doctorate. 

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It would be interesting to see some reliable statistics on how many hours of gangsta rap the average 10-12 year old in this country is actually listening to each week.

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

4channel wrote: Aha, you may have to get out a mingle a bit. There's a lot out there that many people have no idea of.

I have 5 children, 16 grandchildren (including steppies) and  and 14 great grandchildren (also including steppies). So I think  I am  pretty well qualified  to make observations on the subject of kids and their music preferences. 


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No doubt you have experience in parenting and such, but there's possibly a lot more out there you would be surprised to experience.  Going on what you've said in previous messages, I can see that there are certain things that may broaden your perspective.  All of us can learn more by extending our comfort zone.

 

Having an interest in things, I try to find out a bit more.  It learnt some time back that one can be lucky to have something come to them so an info expedition isn't a bad idea! 

 

I've also got some first hand experience with people affected by this.

 

I avoid Murdoch and similar controlled info / programming.

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Have you contacted anyone outside of these boards to complain about gangsta rap?

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@4channel wrote:

@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

4channel wrote: Aha, you may have to get out a mingle a bit. There's a lot out there that many people have no idea of.

I have 5 children, 16 grandchildren (including steppies) and  and 14 great grandchildren (also including steppies). So I think  I am  pretty well qualified  to make observations on the subject of kids and their music preferences. 


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No doubt you have experience in parenting and such, but there's possibly a lot more out there you would be surprised to experience.  Going on what you've said in previous messages, I can see that there are certain things that may broaden your perspective.  All of us can learn more by extending our comfort zone.

 

Having an interest in things, I try to find out a bit more.  It learnt some time back that one can be lucky to have something come to them so an info expedition isn't a bad idea! 

 

I've also got some first hand experience with people affected by this.

 

I avoid Murdoch and similar controlled info / programming.


Wow...I'm speechless, and out of here.......good luck k1000, we're invisible....pretty soon there'll only be 1 poster on this thread

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I'm out - not only of this thread - but any thread begun or added to by.........................................4.

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