Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

 

Today children are exposed to things that 20 years ago were unheard of. As time creeps on we see more and more things that challenge belief. In film and on television, extremely violent imagery is such an accepted and major part of entertainment that some cannot enjoy a film or program unless it is violent.

 

In what passes for music, the lyrics are more explicit and sexually laden than they ever were. A great deal of the video clips that appear on television would be considered pornography once upon a time. Other forms of music such as some rap have lyrics about killing people, guns and putting down women in the worst possible way.

 

Something that would be laughed off as impossible years ago, children before they can even walk properly are now exposed to adult entertainers such as drag queens as part of some supposed education or enlightenment program. Some of these drag queens have names of male and female genitalia. Some have names that relate to sexual scents and arousal. Some even have gone as far as doing stripping routines, twerking, teaching twerking, and  other blatant sexually suggestive behaviour. They are even reading childrens stories that are an alternative to the male and female relationships or the birth genders..

 

Children are playing violent video games which are much more graphic and interactive than what they were in the past. Many are not interested in a video game unless it is violent. They can play for hours and hours on these games, either connected to their own source or a source that is online. Some of the games are so violent that some adults are sickened to the degree that they refuse to even talk about it. Others that do find it almost impossible to comprehend.

 

* Where should the boundaries be set or where should they have been set?

* What effect is this having on children today?

* How will things be in ten or twenty years time?

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

That - ACTUALLY BEGGARS BELIEF. 

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@lovemykids64 wrote:

yes we have brought our children up to have morals and values.   I know alot that home school and i completely understand why now.


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I guess that what you have said here would go over the heads of some folk. I remember you saying in an earlier post that you take an interest in what your daughter watches, wears etc.. Well, coming from me, a man who still has an eye for the ladies and has had a roving eye in the past, I can say that a man who wants the real things in life will appreciate the kind of woman you have raised.  Young women who take pride in the way they dress, have good solid morals are class.

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

lovemykids64 wrote: yes we have brought our children up to have morals and values.   I know a lot that home school and i completely understand why now.

 

Just wondering: at what age would  you consider it safe to allow your kids out into the wider community.  Is it Ok to let them attend uni or would it be better to make them study online at home - where you can keep an eye on what they are being taught and make sure they ae not being corrupted by fellow students.

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

lovemykids64 wrote: yes we have brought our children up to have morals and values.   I know a lot that home school and i completely understand why now.

 

Just wondering: at what age would  you consider it safe to allow your kids out into the wider community.  Is it Ok to let them attend uni or would it be better to make them study online at home - where you can keep an eye on what they are being taught and make sure they ae not being corrupted by fellow students.


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I can't really speak for ilovemykids64. All I can do is comment based on my observations. If her children are out mixing with others, I'd say that they would have an advantage. Good morals instilled at a young age, being directed as to what is appropriate and what isn't gives good protection.

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

Is this insinuating - those of us who do have children - have sent them to school - then Uni - lack morals.

 

And really - anyone who doesn't have children - cannot - not only speak for another - but themselves.

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

alot of parents are waking up to the leftist government run schools.  Home school children i found very educated and sweet children.  Not like some brats in public schools!!

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@lovemykids64 wrote:

alot of parents are waking up to the leftist government run schools.  Home school children i found very educated and sweet children.  Not like some brats in public schools!!


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Yes, there's something unique and  just plain good about home schooled children.

 

I've always supported Labour over the Liberal Party because I can't stand war mongers, racial dividing, greed serving and the inherited and propped up class system. Most  of all I can't stand counterfeit conservatism. Hardly any of the people in the Liberal party past and present who have claimed to be Christians are Christians IMO. I have seen more bearing of false witness, dishonesty, more blasphemy there. I've always liked Kevin Rudd and I do believe him to be more genuine than them in that party I loathe. Sadly with brother Kevin, I think he has compromised himself and some of what is precious to be a politician.

 

Both major parties have contributed to the downfall in our society. Yes you are correct about the "Leftist" thing. And as sad and as hard as it is for me to admit, the Labour Party has become infected.

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

LOL - the only mistake Kev Rudd made - well his oldies - was - they didn't ' home school '. 

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

And the Australian Labor Party isn't spelled with a U

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Protecting children from things adult and improper. Where should the boundaries be?

Guess - as usual he wasn't paying attention. 

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