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Ecar - I totally agree. So weird that so many people make an effort in relationships, especially romantic ones, but then neglect themselves in the process.
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Perhaps people neglect their selves because they are too busy chasing dreams fuelled by their expectations.

Or maybe it's that introspection is viewed with the same 'mainstream' suspicion as tie-dyed cheesecloth, crystals and self help books are, whereas relationships (no matter how disastrous) are seen as the acceptable norm.

In short, it seems it's "better" for two people to make each other incredibly unhappy than it is to seek the happiness that dwells within.

Yes, weird is a word I'd use, too.

 

The funny thing is, a lot of people I have known have found their happiness in sitting and reading a book, or fishing, or cooking.

Taking a little bit of time out for themselves seems to be the answer to a not so difficult question.

 

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If only everyone else had your common sense 🙂
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They do have, and exercise common sense, and I don't doubt that for a moment.

Sometimes, I think, people may exercise poor judgement, that's no reflection on their ability to exercise common sense.

They choose to say or do things which may seem, to the outside observer, to be unwise, but what  they choose to do is their choice.

Words on a screen aren't necessarily a reflection of the true character of their author.

Perhaps the grumpy, cynical, rude, sarcastic folk that you may encounter in internet land, from time to time, are simply people who are tired at the end of a hard day and just want to vent, to shout, to give voice to their frustations.You are "reading" people freed of the necessity of forced politeness that society imposes upon them. Their on line time is their time to be free, on line is where they get to shout and yell and let it all out.

Or maybe they are cynical, sarcastic, grumpy and rude. Who can say? Smiley LOL

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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What a fantastic observation

You know I never thought of it like that

Is a bit of a quandary

Are people really grumpy or rude

Or are they just venting

 

What about the people who are always

Nice on here and there are several 

That comes to mind

 

Ate they likely to be grumpy rude

Cynical etc in reality

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I hope they are as kind and as encouraging in real life.
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Off line, in the real world, yes, I'm as human, as imperfect as anyone.

I have my cynical, grumpy and rude moments. It's a good thing that cars, with the windows wound up, are essentially sound proof. I've had some of my best swear-like-a-trooper angry rant sessions on bits of road between traffic lights. It's very therapeutic. Smiley LOL 

 

 

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Well I would be really disappointed

To find that everyone here was 

Behaving in a way  completely different

To their normal every day 

Characters just because they are

Anonymous

I would expect that of children

But not from a lot on here

 

Sure I can understand people wanting

To appear learned and Worldly but we 

All know that Google is their friend

 

But to completely reverse character

Like a jeckle and  Hyde 

No I don't think that is true in most

Cases

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