27-09-2014 03:10 AM - edited 27-09-2014 03:11 AM
Question:
Does Islam really allow a man to take up to four wives?
Summary Answer:
Yes, a Muslim man can marry as many as four women, and have sexual relations with an unspecified number of slaves as well. Muhammad had eleven wives at one time.
The Quran:
Quran (4:3) - "Marry of the women, who seem good to you, two or three or four; and if ye fear that ye cannot do justice (to so many) then one (only) or (the captives) that your right hands possess." This verse clearly allows a man to have up to four wives (Allah conveniently granted Muhammad an exception... according to what Muhammad told his followers). According to the Hadith, the "justice" spoken of merely refers to the dowry provided the bride, not the treatment accorded following the wedding.
Quran (4:129) - "Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire" Underscores that a man is not able to treat multiple wives fairly. He would therefore be unable to acquire more than one wife if this were a requirement - which it is not. In fact, Muhammad was not able to treat his own wives fairly (see Additional Notes).
Quran (66:5) - "Maybe, his Lord, if he divorce you, will give him in your place wives better than you, submissive, faithful, obedient, penitent, adorers, fasters, widows and virgins" A disobedient wife can be replaced. A man can only have up to four wives, but he can rotate as many women as he pleases in and out of the lineup.
http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/Quran/017-polygamy.htm
I wonder what women in the 21st century think about this?
on 28-09-2014 07:13 AM
Well, if that's where we all originated from, it explains the disturbing characteristics of some posters here.
Wait a minute, we are all related! We are all perfect then.
on 28-09-2014 07:14 AM
woops ^^^^ wrong thread??
on 28-09-2014 07:17 AM
@colic2bullsgirlore wrote:woops ^^^^ wrong thread??
Wrong side of the bed?
on 28-09-2014 07:21 AM
Lyrica Oxycontin stupor/hangover...is closer to the mark..... I think it's time for one more caffeine and then mindless slashing
for a few hrs....
on 28-09-2014 07:24 AM
Sorry Polks I wasn't having a shot at you... my post was on the wrong thread I meant to post it on the incest thread.....
although the way the posts lay it looks like it...
on 28-09-2014 07:26 AM
@colic2bullsgirlore wrote:Sorry Polks I wasn't having a shot at you... my post was on the wrong thread I meant to post it on the incest thread.....
although the way the posts lay it looks like it...
I realised that, my comment was about the interloper.
on 28-09-2014 07:33 AM
on 28-09-2014 07:49 AM
Done. most if it were not my words though I put the URL in the other thread and reported the post on this one
on 28-09-2014 09:24 AM
@ufo_investigations wrote:
@the_great_she_elephant wrote:UFO, rather than asking loaded questions here, might I suggest you actually seek out a few Muslims and ask them what they personally believe and what practices they follow. Quoting from the Quran is like quoting from the bible and. you may be astonished to discover that, just as not every Christian- or Jew - adheres strictly to every single thing written in the bible, so not every Muslim adheres strictly to everything written in the Quran.
And here, for your edification and enlightenment, is a list of Biblical polygamists. http://www.biblicalpolygamy.com/
I don't know any muslims, besides if I didn't start the thread here what are we going to talk about, the footy? I thought this would make interesting convo. 😉
I think it's really sad to judge a whole group of people without knowing a single person of that faith.
on 28-09-2014 11:45 AM
@karliandjacko wrote:Polyamorous means having a loving sexual relationship more than one person, according to dr google.
There are other words that describe the same behavior. Probably not permitted to use them here though.